“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girlfriend plays sports, wants me to come to a game...

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Well, she plays a sport (basketball or soccer) and wants me to come watch her. Usually I can't b/c i play sports but im not this season. She mentioned it to me a few times how she wants me to go once..well how would a DJ act and go about it.

We've been going out 3months now, i would think i should go..just not let her be the one to tell me which game to go to or w.e

How should i handle this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HOLY F*CKING SH*T DUDE!!!!

people like you detract from this board. Who the f*ck cares whether you go watch her play? Its been 3 months already, if your still playing your little games, then something is amiss. stop analyzing every little thing! gah! its so frustrating when people like you spam the boards with idiotic questions about meaningless things. make a f*cking decision yourself! :down:
 
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go, dont go, we dont really care, and we dont have any advice for you, please refrain from wasting our time with this stupid crap
 
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this is a DISCUSSION board..so if i have a question i'll ask it. If you don't like it why are you here?

SO what if it's not a big deal, these little problems are what effects me and every time i make a post here i grow more and more and feel better about it. Back off
 
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An attractive man would go and watch if it interested him and he didn't have to sacrifice anything. He may even be a little ****y and funny about it or ask for something in return

You need to read some more works by Pook etc, you are overanalysing things


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I hope Hurricane Mod causes a flood in Stupid Unnecessary Question City.
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in light of recent events, that is not funny
 
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yea, this post is a joke. OMG dewd, she asked me to a game, what should i do?

"just not let her be the one to tell me which game to go to or w.e"

thats absolutely asinine to think that way. this site has some people seriously going about things the wrong way.
 
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Don't go dude, break up with her! She's using you as social proof :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OK, I'm gonna have to ask it... Why wouldn't want to go to her game?
 
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she asks for something..i give it to her? Thought a major concept of the DJ was not to always give give give..or tease her a bit.

Fine--my bad for posting this you aholes. I'll limit my posts to only stuff thats "worthy" of discussion. thanks
 
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As someone else put it, you're in a ****in LTR, what's with this?

If you can make it then go, if not then dont. How hard can this decision really be?
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
The recent events are the whole reason I posted that. Learn to look at the worst with a light heart and you will live a happy life.
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I am sorry I did not find that as humorus as you do, but I have friends who may have been killed in that storm
 
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Since you like sports if you want to go to one or all of her games then go. It's not like you're not interested in sports and would only be going because of her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by shark
Well, she plays a sport (basketball or soccer) and wants me to come watch her. Usually I can't b/c i play sports but im not this season. She mentioned it to me a few times how she wants me to go once..well how would a DJ act and go about it.

We've been going out 3months now, i would think i should go..just not let her be the one to tell me which game to go to or w.e

How should i handle this?
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Sure go, why wouldn't you? Have fun at the game, cheer her on, have fun with her and with life.

Do you calculate and censor eveything that you do? If you do, you must feel paralyzed. If the gal is great, go with the flow and do have fun with her.

This girl sounds like fun, good for you. Have fun.
 
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