"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girlfriend on the pill

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stewie

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Do girls take birth control for any reasons other than just birth control. I ask because my girlfriend and I haven't had sex. And she has had only one other boyfriend besides me (they broke up a couple of years ago) and they didn't have sex. Also, shes a good girl so she wouldn't just give it up for anyone. Yet she takes birth control every morning.

Im just wondering if she takes it for health reasons. By the way, I don't know how long shes been taking it but she started before we started going out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Several reasons:

1) Just "incase" you two get carried away one night, she's already thinking ahead and being smart.

2) Makes your boobs bigger

3) Mostly though, it regulates a woman's period and lessens cramps and other PMS symptoms.
 
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might also be fear of being raped, maybe it happened/close to happening in the past, would hate to have a rapists baby?

its strange though, cause the pill makes girls gain weight, so i hear? dunno why anyone not having sex would want that? but really, i have no idea.
 
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Originally posted by Confuzzled
Several reasons:

1) Just "incase" you two get carried away one night, she's already thinking ahead and being smart.

2) Makes your boobs bigger

3) Mostly though, it regulates a woman's period and lessens cramps and other PMS symptoms.
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:eek: thanks this noob dont know **** any more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I remember hearing something that it helps the complextion of a girls face. You never know though. I figure, better on it than not on it and be sorry.
 
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my gf was taking it when i met her because she has ovarian cysts, and it balances hormones to help stop them from forming.

Might be one reason.
 
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There are multiple reasons.

Does it really matter?

You should still wear a rubber if you've just meet the girl.

have the both of you get a STD test if your going to fvck without a rubber.
 
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"3) Mostly though, it regulates a woman's period and lessens cramps and other PMS symptoms."

This seems the biggest reason AFAIK.
 
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