Third date:
Went to her place. Watched TV for an hour, holding hands and a bit of touching.
Then sort of escalated it with some light kissing, wasn't trying too hard. Then she jumped all over me, kissing off my face like she was going to eat me or something, touching up my d*ck. It was still slow as f*ck, like I've never encountered in my life before, and this took over an hour. She initially wouldn't take her jeans off, I was met with a shake of the head, I just laughed it off. Eventually managed to get her to take it off. She said we should go to her bedroom, so followed her there.
In bedroom took all her clothes off (her body is fine) and took mine off as well, kissed some more, fingered her and she was wet. She seemed really into it, but as before she wasn't going for the bj and was just about to get a condom to f*ck her but she said we're not going there and continued to just jerk me off over myself until finish (I ended up doing it myself since many girls don't know how to do it). She then said she wanted me to stay overnight with her. I told her I need to go back. She also asked me if I want to meet her the following night in the city, I said I'm going out with some friends. It's as if she's already trying to be my girlfriend, just without sex.
So that's the third date. For all dates combined spent about 6 hours kissing/making out and escalating things in slow motion.
It was hardly pleasurable at all, as you can probably tell. Spending time with someone and sexualising things for the first time is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, it's not supposed to be a fuc*ing chore. So yes I'm pretty fed up with it. [Another girl a month or so ago didn't want to have sex with me after two dates but at least was upfront with it - because she knew I had sex with her friend recently - which I happily accepted plus then gave a bj anyway and swallowed the lot.]
Even if a relationship were to progress this would always be in the back of my mind. It has so far progressed further on each date, but if she can't even give a bj, then really is it worth investing any more time in this? What I'm most p*ssed about though is that she just appears to be leading me on and in the end can't seem to do more than a simple jerk.
So do I just get rid of her, or just go no contact and appear busy the whole time and make her put more into it? Either way will spin more p*ssies regardless.
Went to her place. Watched TV for an hour, holding hands and a bit of touching.
Then sort of escalated it with some light kissing, wasn't trying too hard. Then she jumped all over me, kissing off my face like she was going to eat me or something, touching up my d*ck. It was still slow as f*ck, like I've never encountered in my life before, and this took over an hour. She initially wouldn't take her jeans off, I was met with a shake of the head, I just laughed it off. Eventually managed to get her to take it off. She said we should go to her bedroom, so followed her there.
In bedroom took all her clothes off (her body is fine) and took mine off as well, kissed some more, fingered her and she was wet. She seemed really into it, but as before she wasn't going for the bj and was just about to get a condom to f*ck her but she said we're not going there and continued to just jerk me off over myself until finish (I ended up doing it myself since many girls don't know how to do it). She then said she wanted me to stay overnight with her. I told her I need to go back. She also asked me if I want to meet her the following night in the city, I said I'm going out with some friends. It's as if she's already trying to be my girlfriend, just without sex.
So that's the third date. For all dates combined spent about 6 hours kissing/making out and escalating things in slow motion.
It was hardly pleasurable at all, as you can probably tell. Spending time with someone and sexualising things for the first time is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, it's not supposed to be a fuc*ing chore. So yes I'm pretty fed up with it. [Another girl a month or so ago didn't want to have sex with me after two dates but at least was upfront with it - because she knew I had sex with her friend recently - which I happily accepted plus then gave a bj anyway and swallowed the lot.]
Even if a relationship were to progress this would always be in the back of my mind. It has so far progressed further on each date, but if she can't even give a bj, then really is it worth investing any more time in this? What I'm most p*ssed about though is that she just appears to be leading me on and in the end can't seem to do more than a simple jerk.
So do I just get rid of her, or just go no contact and appear busy the whole time and make her put more into it? Either way will spin more p*ssies regardless.
