Girl who never answers her phone, only texts

[LoneWolf]

I've text this girl a bit and she has text me too... stopped talking for a couple weeks because she wouldn't pick up her phone, kept saying "I don't feel well to talk right now." So today we are texting a little bit again... she says she's out having a walk so I thought, great opportunity to call and talk for once. She does not answer and says the same thing "I'm not feeling well to talk. Honestly. I'll talk to you at some point." I replied "Goodbye. I don't need your number anymore. Have a good one "

Not once has she ever spoken to me in the time I've known her. Which has been a while but in yearly gaps.

What's the point having her number if she won't talk to me? I was thinking, don't reply. But then I thought, I want her to know I've had enough of her sh!t and I'm not gonna be silent and wait around.

She now replied to my text "Yeah because it's all about you and what you want. You're just rude and simple." < girls crack me up. Does anyone even know what she's on about? Anyway, I will not be replying. UNTIL she calls or tells me to call.


oh and p.s. : she is or was on drugs. She told me she quit recently but who knows. Has somethin to do with her being a bit whacky. Messages me sometimes saying "I'm freaking out. I feel weird. I had a panic attack."

She's messed up but she lives literally down the road... but she still won't make it easy for us to meet up and hit it off. It's a shame. I use to know a girl down the road.. we'd meet up almost every second night. That was fun.

 

[The_Crack]

lol dude..
Its the new age of digital communication man. Everyone is communicating through text, weather it be through SMS, MMS, facebook, instant messeging or MSN.
Get with the times already. Calling is all well and good, but you can't be so anti text. Use the texting to get a meet up and talk to her face to face!

Her calling you rude is appropriate to how you responded. So what if she doesn't want to talk through phone? Some girls are that way. I know a few girls who would not answer when i call but were open through text and i've banged more than a couple of ladies purely through text game.

Gotta expand your horizons. Just cause everyone on this site or Mystery Method tell you to only call and not text does not mean it's something to shun. Be your own man

 

[LoneWolf]

But you get so much more game when they hear your voice. It's different. There's been many times where once the girl heard me, she fell in love. I actually met someone based on my voice lol. She kept saying... when I heard that voice, that was it. I like texting, but sometimes, letting them hear your voice helps in a big way. But yeah, it's 2012. I guess that's how it is.

 

[runner83]

I've text this girl a bit and she has text me too... stopped talking for a couple weeks because she wouldn't pick up her phone, kept saying "I don't feel well to talk right now." So today we are texting a little bit again... she says she's out having a walk so I thought, great opportunity to call and talk for once. She does not answer and says the same thing "I'm not feeling well to talk. Honestly. I'll talk to you at some point." I replied "Goodbye. I don't need your number anymore. Have a good one "

Not once has she ever spoken to me in the time I've known her. Which has been a while but in yearly gaps.

What's the point having her number if she won't talk to me? I was thinking, don't reply. But then I thought, I want her to know I've had enough of her sh!t and I'm not gonna be silent and wait around.

She now replied to my text "Yeah because it's all about you and what you want. You're just rude and simple." < girls crack me up. Does anyone even know what she's on about? Anyway, I will not be replying. UNTIL she calls or tells me to call.


oh and p.s. : she is or was on drugs. She told me she quit recently but who knows. Has somethin to do with her being a bit whacky. Messages me sometimes saying "I'm freaking out. I feel weird. I had a panic attack."

She's messed up but she lives literally down the road... but she still won't make it easy for us to meet up and hit it off. It's a shame. I use to know a girl down the road.. we'd meet up almost every second night. That was fun.

Seriously dude, get with the program and move into the 21st century.

No chick under the age of 25 calls these days, to be honest I don't either - texts are so bloody convenient.

Instead of getting hung up on whether or not she answers your calls due to your preconceived stereotypes in regards to calling vs texting, and then sending text messages shooting yourself in the foot, adapt to the fact of how things are today.

95% of the chicks I have banged (the ones where I have actually got the number or even name before i banged her) meet up was via text.

Stop being a wussy whining about the method and focus on results.

Obviously, if you text her, and still find it hard to meet up with her, that is a next regardless.

 

[bigneil]

Been dating my gf for 4 months. Spoke to her on the phone once.

 

[runner83]

Been dating my gf for 4 months. Spoke to her on the phone once.

Well said sir!

 

[Jariel]

I replied "Goodbye. I don't need your number anymore. Have a good one "

You really said that? Not good my friend. That makes you look like a stroppy girl who didn't get her own way.

"Yeah because it's all about you and what you want. You're just rude and simple." < girls crack me up. Does anyone even know what she's on about? Anyway, I will not be replying. UNTIL she calls or tells me to call.

From her perspective you threw a hissy fit because she didn't want to talk. Her reply is more than reasonable to be fair.

"I'm freaking out. I feel weird. I had a panic attack."

If she suffers from panic attacks, she's probably very nervous about talking to you. She probably needs time to get to know you and feel comfortable with you.

You have to understand that girls are not all super confident, arrogant or b1tchy. Many of the girls I've dated have been so tense and nervous when meeting me for the first time and some girls who flaked on me later confessed that they had a panic attack and were too scared to go through with it.

I can relate to this as I went through the same thing some years ago. I even suffered a few panic attacks getting back into the dating scene after finishing with my ex.

Like a lot of guys on here, I think you need to stop being so defensive and reactive. I'd say you definitely overreacted here.