protienpowder said:
If you are gonna be friends with her, you gotta treat her like your guy friends, and you guys should do guy stuff, like watch sports and play video games. If your not having a good time doing these things with her, forget it.
i see what your saying here, but do think that thats gunna work?
Scenario: your on the couch with a friend, drinking beers, watching sports, playing video games, yea? Now if this is a guy, you will start shouting at the tv/ calling him names cuz he's beating you at your video game whatever. Youll talk about banging chicks, youll talk about drinking more beer, eventually youll decide to go out on the pull or whatever.
Now imagine this: Your on the couch playing video games watching sports with a "girl friend" you have a few beers, watching the game, you turn and look at this attractive girl sittin next you, now its fight or flight: theres only really two things that are gunna happen here:
1. Your staring at your hot friend, you're right next to her on the couch your heart beats a little faster, that devil on your shoulder says "go on, whats the worse that can happen" so you make a pass.....BOOM! your friend kisses you back and you start making mad passionate love on the couch (because its obviously what you both want.) If this happens then it jusgt proves the theory- shes not yiour friend, all along youve posed as a friend the both of you have, but your really friends, and youve wasted the last month or whatever trying to bang this chick, when lets face it you could of done it ages ago. Which proves why being friends is a waste of time.
Now the reality:
2. Your staring at your hot friend, you're right next to her on the couch your heart beats a little faster, that devil on your shoulder says "go on, whats the worse that can happen" But then she starts talking about guys she likes, and eventually she says something like " I want my next boyfriend to be more like you" or some **** like that. But you see that as a green light.... so you make the pass....."what the **** are you doing, i thought we were friends" thats whats she says!
oh dear, shes given you the wrong signals you say something like: " but you just said" and before you get a chance to say anythign else, she says some bollocks like: " i thought you understood me, i thought you trusted me when all along you just wanted me for one thing" and then when you here these words: "Your my best friend/ I love you like a brother/ I thought i could trust you" or possibly, lets face it this icould be the worst one:
"YOUR JUST LIKE THE OTHER GUYS"
that will birng you down to earth with a bang. your "friendship" is over, youve lost her as a friend, all hope of anything else is gone. Ok so maybe your not foing to try and jump your friend straight away, but inevitably that scenario is going to happen.
Keep females for clubs, kino, social proof flirting practice, dont get to involved as their friend.
I really believe its no good having female friends, aquaintances yes, friends no!please feel free to counter argue with me or raise some other pointseven disagree.
