Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It was a first for me. I've had a girl tell me I f*cked up by being late when she beat me to my house, and I apologized and we continued on with our date.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
No mate, @derby1 is right ,this language is too low, (and No, I'm definitely not a female). It's actually harming your frame instead of enforcing it, It's pull you down instead of pull you up, no gain here for you. Learning controlling your emotions is a good trait to have , in, and out of dating life.
Taking her out as a reward for going on the first date?
Uh huh