girl thinks im a creep, time to next right?

[BongDuy]

So what happen was i had this girl in my class my sophmore year, way back before i discovered this site and was a huge AFC. i never had a chance to talk to her because i was too shy and timid. During the summer, i added her on myspace, and commented her with a simple greeting. when she didn't msg me back, idk what i was thinking but i ended up deleting her and never speaking to her again.

My junior year i made a big mistake telling some of her friends that i liked her. they tried to get me to talk to her, but that proved even more awkward. My friend said that she told him " Sorry i can't hang out with you because that "Guy" ( me ) is going to be with you"

Me and her are going to have the same math class once again this year. Should i attempt to fix what i messed up on? or should i just totally forget about her and try to ignore her?

 

[eaglez1177]

Just forget about it dude, next her. The fact that you're considering trying to work things out with her shows that you have a little bit of a one-itis for this chick. Its really not worth all the mental anxiety, trouble, and stress or trying to get her back, cuz then that will just increase your one-itis. Forget about her, move on, and game other chicks.

And just for the record:

1. Im usually against adding girls on facebook or myspace and then making the first words I say to them NOT in person (as in the first time you say something to them its through a message on myspace or wall post or something online). Its much better to greet a girl for the first time in person, simply cuz it can show your confidence and get you off to a good start, rather than trying to meet her online which could make you seem kinda creepy, especially if the chick barely even knew you and you just greeted her online.

2. And if she didnt message you back, theres nothing wrong with deleting her and never speaking to her again lol. You were just thinking normally theres nothing wrong there.

3. And obviously as you prolly already know, that was a huge mistake telling your friends that you liked her lol.

 

[kevin1198]

sometimes people just wont take a liking to you.
i wouldnt next her just yet.
Try to talk to her in person first (i know it will feel akward but you have to TRY maybe listen to a good song to make you pumped up and confident, whatever helps), and if you get any unpleasant signals just next her. She's probably not worth your time.

unless your real good at online game get to know them in person first, in fact i like getting to know people in person first, it just makes things easier and less akward later on.

 

[BongDuy]

haha yeah i cant "game" online very well and im pretty sure she just isnt into me. thanks for the advice. next