Girl tells me how much she likes me then rejects me on vday...

[gimmeyofonenumba]

That should be a cardinal sin huh? Haha. Mon. Night she told me via text that she is planning on moving out of state. But she had so much fun on our first date,wanted to stay in contact, really liked me and wish she could hangout with me more. We made out, she felt up on my ****tails on the first date. Anyways once she spilled out her feelings, I thought it was a safe assumption to say hey "come hangout with me tonight". But she replies that she's hangin out with friends, and that she's sorry. I said we"ll try for another day she replidd she'll be busy with the move,etc but she'll let me know. I've nexted, but I conaider myself a vet here, and I still get burned from time to time.

 

[bigneil]

She probably had a date. Do you think she wanted to be single on Valentine's day?

 

[floydb25]

Actually, the cardinal sin is what you did. You made the mistake of assuming her interest meant that she wanted you to reciprocate. Or, that she'd respond favorably to it. That's a big no-no. She's showing interest because you aren't. That's how you gotta keep it going for a while. Women like to chase and feel like they earned you, so let them.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

She's with her main dude obviously.

Every last one of my girls that I'm currently banging hit me up yesterday and I didn't respond to any of them. If they didn't hit me up yesterday then I could say they are with another dude for sure! I didn't do anything yesterday but work and community service. Screw national tricking day. Yesterday was actually productive!

 

[Victory Unlimited]

9 times out of 10, women usually only risk rejecting "a sure thing" for what they perceive as a "better thing", or simply...the possibility of hopefully finding a "better thing".

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Well this is.one of the last times she'll see her friends. So it's understandable. But I know there is also ex drama goin on too. Which is probably the main dude.

 

[nismo-4]

Valentine's day should be called Chumps Awareness Day. :woo:

I do understand that you've been burned, but I've found you guilty of failure to maintain the frame.

Women want what they can't have. In this case, she wanted you, but she knows she can have you.

The friend she's hanging out with is more than likely another dude. I am glad that you understood that your princess is in another castle (Moved on) and I respect you. Mostly because you didn't cry about it.

Keep on truckin'!

Case closed.