Hey guys this is my first post on here so I hope I'm doing it right haha. Basically my issue is that I met this girl on tinder a couple of months back and we have been messaging each other on Whatsapp since April. The reason we didn't meet up during that time is because I had to go back to uni for my exams, so it wasn't possible, however we both discussed that we'd meet up when I came home for summer. For the majority of that time we have been getting on really well and sending texts back and forth all day, and the longest I'd have to wait for a reply would be a couple of hours, with most replies coming within a couple of minutes, and we'd be sending multiple messages to each other every time, so we were having long conversations and she seemed incredibly keen for the entire two month period.
This suddenly changed however last week when literally overnight she went from replying to my messages really quickly and throughout the day to taking hours to reply to the majority of them. Apart from a couple of exceptions she has basically stopped messaging me during the day and only seems to want to message after like 10.30pm which is really frustrating especially considering it's the summer holidays so I don't have much to take my mind off the fact she's taking so long to reply. What's also annoying is that I can see that she goes on Whatsapp lots of times every day without replying and she also has time to tweet so it's not like she can say she's just too busy to reply.
What's confused me even more is that last Friday I decided to ask her if she wanted to go for a meal with me on the 3rd July, thinking that I could find out if she has lost interest, and I was expecting her to say no tbh. However she said yes so now I'm even more confused as to why she's taking so long to reply to my messages. Decided to seek advice after she took 23 hours to reply to the last message I sent on Sunday night, with her only replying last night at 11pm. Just incredibly confused and don't know how I should approach the situation. I kind of want to ignore her but I really like her and also don't want to stop talking to her and end up not meeting her

This suddenly changed however last week when literally overnight she went from replying to my messages really quickly and throughout the day to taking hours to reply to the majority of them. Apart from a couple of exceptions she has basically stopped messaging me during the day and only seems to want to message after like 10.30pm which is really frustrating especially considering it's the summer holidays so I don't have much to take my mind off the fact she's taking so long to reply. What's also annoying is that I can see that she goes on Whatsapp lots of times every day without replying and she also has time to tweet so it's not like she can say she's just too busy to reply.
What's confused me even more is that last Friday I decided to ask her if she wanted to go for a meal with me on the 3rd July, thinking that I could find out if she has lost interest, and I was expecting her to say no tbh. However she said yes so now I'm even more confused as to why she's taking so long to reply to my messages. Decided to seek advice after she took 23 hours to reply to the last message I sent on Sunday night, with her only replying last night at 11pm. Just incredibly confused and don't know how I should approach the situation. I kind of want to ignore her but I really like her and also don't want to stop talking to her and end up not meeting her
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