"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girl stops in middle of convo
- Thread starter HandyAndy
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
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posting a pic would help
Michele l'Arcangelo
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and yes, a picture would help...
...me bust a nut by myself.
right, CrazyAsian?
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Get used to it.
sigh.......
Damn, guys. This one is gonna hurt the kid.
All I can say is, start reading as much material as you can.
Observe the guys you know score with women. Study them.
Hang with them. WHile being your SELF , your TRUE self, emulate their approaches.
You're 15, little man.
It's going to be a bumpy ride.
But stay positive. Stay strong. Always look to improve.
And study women.
Study women.Studty every wopman you meet.
And ask them questions.
Talk to them.
And lsiten to them.
Learn to NEVER, EVER be or act desperate or needy.
YOu don't NEED their VALIDATION.
And don't reject yourself FIRST.
You are worthy.
And as you get older, and stick to hte programs, and become MATURE.....
.....you will have DIRECTION> DECISIVENESS> AMBITION> PASSION> POWER> GOALS> SUCCESS>HAPPINESS
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.