Girl still gaga over ex, a little rusty, what to do?

[Adakkon]

It's been a few years since I logged on here. Need some advice and friends are all much worse off than me with women than me.

Met a girl I really liked, HB8 or so. Got her number, she'd text me like 20 times a day and we planned to meet up on weekend. Thought it was in the bag with how much she kept bothering me. When we hungout it was really weird and awkward though. Couldn't put my finger on it.

Looked at her facebook this morning. She's got status updates about crying over some dude all night from the past few weeks and todays was some crap like "I wish he could be the one I am in love with" Assuming thats me.

Lost cause? How to proceed? If I remember the bible right I know when girls dump dudes its fine to proceed usually, but when they get dumped I have no idea.

 

[Hughman]

I'm confused - she crying over some other dude, or she crying over you?

From that you're saying it sounds like she has her heart with someone else. Probe and/or next.

 

[DJDamage]

Don't build your hopes on this one, make sure you got other numbers as well.

Sounds to me as if she is still not over her ex and is just looking around for forgetful rebounds to fill the empty void that was left.

Possible scenario's:

1) she is going to let you fvck her for a bit and then dump your ass because she will be looking for other c0cks.

2) She isn't going to let you fvck her and will waste your time until she finds another guy and then you will never hear from her again.

3) she is going to let you fvck her and get really attached to you.

Due to your "weird and awkward" interaction you had with her, I am inclined to go with scenario number 2.

 

[axxo]

be careful.. don't be a rebound like i was.. just **** her and dont have any emotional feeling for her. you will be fine.

 

[Adakkon]

The other dude. Looks like he dumped her a month ago though. Not sure why the hell she isn't over it yet. I asked her if she had recently broken up with anyone when I was trying to figure out why the night went weird and she said no.

I'd rather not next, girl actually seems like she's responsible and has a future, (IE things I'm looking for at this point) but I'm thinking that may be only choice?

 

[Badmannaz]

Ok im a master don juan on this site and let me tell you now...this is a no go....if your good at having no strings attached sex you can pull it off but if you want a girlfriend out of this...your definately not gonna find what your looking for in her..

she just broke up (heartbreak)

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Don't build your hopes on this one, make sure you got other numbers as well.

Sounds to me as if she is still not over her ex and is just looking around for forgetful rebounds to fill the empty void that was left.

Possible scenario's:

1) she is going to let you fvck her for a bit and then dump your ass because she will be looking for other c0cks.

2) She isn't going to let you fvck her and will waste your time until she finds another guy and then you will never hear from her again.

3) she is going to let you fvck her and get really attached to you.

Due to your "weird and awkward" interaction you had with her, I am inclined to go with scenario number 2.

Agreed.

 

[slaog]

She still has strong feeling for her ex. Those won't dissapear over night. The only thing you can do is take things really sloooooow. Don't contact her too much. When she's feeling bad don't be around her.


Back off and wait for her emotions to settle down. At the moment you're wasting your time. Tell her you think she needs time to get over her ex and you'll contact her in a few weeks.


Keep her as a plate and look for other plates. If she is high quality then she may be worth some of your valuable time.