girl sends mixed signals...not sure...

[pyros]

I met this chick, 25, muslim, pretty attractive, single mother, at my salsa class.
She was obviously into me because she said that she liked my eyes, and on another occasion she said that she liked me in red.
Well, I added her on FB, I chatted with her and she offered her number without me asking.
Then, next time we met at salsa she said that she would like to hang out with me, so two days later I asked her out.
Whe went to grab a drink, and after 1.5 hours I went for the kiss, it was pretty quick and she said that she liked me but wanted talk more first. Whatever. At the end of the date SHE kissed me, but it was short again. Also she told me that she was hanging out with two more men lately to see which one was best for her.
Next week I asked her out again, we went to have another drink and for a walk We had a very good time. She grabbed my arm while walking...
At the end I went for the kiss again, we made out a bit, and she said that the next kiss would be better. Ok...

She texts me almost everyday, wishing me good night, or just to send me a kiss, etc.
Two days passed and I did not contact her. When we met at salsa class again (it's weekly) she said in a funy way that she was upset because I did not text her. Besides, next day she texted me and asked me if I wanted to be her friend or if I wanted something more with her... (???)
I said that I'd like to get to know her more and she got happy. She also said that now she wanted to 'date' me, no other guys.

BUT... I can understand that she has three children, but on our second date she almost cancelled because she said she had trouble with the babysitter...
And last Thursday I asked her out again for this Saturday and she said, as in the previous dates, that she would let me know if she could make it, so on Friday night she said that it was impossible.
Today Saturday, she text me just to say good-morning, and to say also that she could not be free on Sunday either.
Tonight she asked me if I was gonna party. I said yes, she said that she was coming to the center (she lives 40 mins away) so I said that we could maybe meet at some point during the night. She replied that she would let me know.
One hour later she said that she could not come, and asked me to send her a picture of the place I was going.

I'm not planing on asking her out again. I mean, if she wants to meet, she's gonna be the one to say it, because I did not like how I asked her out for Saturday or Sunday (I gave her two times since she's a mother...), and she said she could not meet, and did not counteroffer another time.


Opinions? is she crazy? I think so. And I also feel there are other men involved...don't know...

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo is sure about this: Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Ask yourself if she would do this sh*t to Brad Pitt. She wouldn't, there you go. Go ghost on her or better yet, drop her ass. Mixed signals are negative signals. Your princess is in another castle.

Case closed.

 

[pyros]

Sorry, I dont know why but the begining of my post was not present, I corrected it.

 

[GotED?]

Dude, if she's a single mother - of course she's gonna stroke your ego and try to entrap you.

You have no kid - she has kid(s). She is at the bottom feeder of dating pool for most men. She has to scrape for scraps of food just to get any attention from men, that is why she's so aggressively showing interest.

Think carefully before you get involved with this situation:

1) Single mother (THREE fooken kids!! same or different fathers? FOOK....)
2) Her age group is going to be some heavy immature head games.
3) Possible Attention Whoore (single mothers are very lonely usually)
4) Muslin (really? you want to deal with that?)

Be well.

Exodus

 

[VladPatton]

A Muslim chick with three kids??? WTF are you thinking, man? She's lookin for a new baby daddy. Either make her a FWB or pull the plug.

 

[GS750]

Eject Ghost Rider. Waaaaaaaay too much baggage

 

[Pardner]

How can you meet all these women with problems or not know what to do with them in each thread?

 

[pyros]

How can you meet all these women with problems or not know what to do with them in each thread?

Hahaha, I dont know. Some of them are weird this is why I ask here.
Anyway, I dont want a relationship with her, just FWB of course.

I read somewhere here 'single momns need some love too 'lol'.


Tips on how to proceed to bang her? She said she could not make it on Saturay and neither on Sunday (it could be legit or not). Ok she has kids, but after two date, she cannot meet at any time during the weekend....? come on.

 

[pyros]

just and update:

she texted me to ask me out on Sunday night. It went well, I made out more, massaged her boobs, she did not want to go further...ok. we'll see...