Professional Tease
I hung out with this girl again last night. After she had texted me Monday afternoon, I ran into her that night at a show in town. She was surprised to see me and I was very indifferent. She told me that she couldn't stay because she was friends with the guy that played earlier and was driving him home. Hmm.
Two nights ago, I ran into her again. She was pretty drunk and wanted to hang out late night but her friend had an early flight out, and she was the ride etc so she decided not to hang, but she told me she was excited for our date etc.
So, last night, I had a few chill things planned and everything went great in the sense that we had fun, I didn't spend more than 1 drinks worth of money on her, and I could tell that she was still interested. However, totally physical road blocks. I can't escalate her past anything other than making out (and I'm pretty confident that I'm escalating right and I know she loves how I kiss etc.)
Again, she brings up the whole deal that she never dates and she's so confused with what is happening. She specifically said "we've been on 3 dates and they've been amazing. And I never do that!".
The bigger kick in the balls comes here though: She has "one of my best friends from high school coming into town on Monday". He's a guy and staying with her. She is totally the type of girl that has way more guy friends than girls so I'm not surprised one of her old best friends is a guy, however, we're all aware enough here that there is no way some dude in his mid to late 20's is flying down to see an old friend, who is a single girl, without expecting to get laid.
So, who knows, perhaps I had a clink in my game that I haven't seen which has sidelined me. I can't imagine she's using me because I'm not really giving her anything other than company. But now I'm beginning to think that perhaps her look, attitude, and "normally, I'm down to F" statement is all smoke and mirrors and that she is just a major c0ck tease who is not giving it up very easily.
Alas, the band marches on.
I hung out with this girl again last night. After she had texted me Monday afternoon, I ran into her that night at a show in town. She was surprised to see me and I was very indifferent. She told me that she couldn't stay because she was friends with the guy that played earlier and was driving him home. Hmm.
Two nights ago, I ran into her again. She was pretty drunk and wanted to hang out late night but her friend had an early flight out, and she was the ride etc so she decided not to hang, but she told me she was excited for our date etc.
So, last night, I had a few chill things planned and everything went great in the sense that we had fun, I didn't spend more than 1 drinks worth of money on her, and I could tell that she was still interested. However, totally physical road blocks. I can't escalate her past anything other than making out (and I'm pretty confident that I'm escalating right and I know she loves how I kiss etc.)
Again, she brings up the whole deal that she never dates and she's so confused with what is happening. She specifically said "we've been on 3 dates and they've been amazing. And I never do that!".
The bigger kick in the balls comes here though: She has "one of my best friends from high school coming into town on Monday". He's a guy and staying with her. She is totally the type of girl that has way more guy friends than girls so I'm not surprised one of her old best friends is a guy, however, we're all aware enough here that there is no way some dude in his mid to late 20's is flying down to see an old friend, who is a single girl, without expecting to get laid.
So, who knows, perhaps I had a clink in my game that I haven't seen which has sidelined me. I can't imagine she's using me because I'm not really giving her anything other than company. But now I'm beginning to think that perhaps her look, attitude, and "normally, I'm down to F" statement is all smoke and mirrors and that she is just a major c0ck tease who is not giving it up very easily.
Alas, the band marches on.