"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she's playing around. . . seems like she likes having your attention. Be smart about it by not giving her too much attention. If you give her the attention when she is looking for it, guess who is in control?

Take control dude. Insecure girls seek attention because of their lack of confidence.

Also, don't take her seriously if she's not going to take you seriously. If you do visit her at her place and you guys make out, do not snooze. Push it as far as you can and try to get to 3rd base.

Let us know what you do next time you talk or see her. Tell us the highlights of your experience and we can take it from there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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syemour said:
this ***** just wants your attention. cut all communication cold and see how see reacts, and in the mean time be talking to other chicks.
very well said... before I even read this, I posted the same thing
 
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Raikojo17 said:
..... because she still says it. what the hell is this? seems to me if she was into me she would jump at the chance to go out.
Quit playing hor games KID!!!!!

Give her 5 seconds to answer your request!!!!! 5, 4, 3, 2, 1!!!!! Then hang up!!!!

NEVER play into a woman's hand -- you are the dealer - you control the cards and the tempo of the game!!!!!!
 

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Raikojo17 said:
so get this. she's now telling me to call her so we can arrange a get together. she is bringing one of her friends, and she's asking to bring one of my friends for her friend. she also agreed to our little date too, saying that she had to see wat her mom was doing first. I guess she was just playing hard to get, cuz she and her friend are tryin to get me to call her, and she's callin me "beasty",soo...
Wait a second, she's putting your date with her behind what her mother plans on doing and that her girlfriend needs a hookup. Make sure you aren't wearing blinders and take a look at what is going on around you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never accept a "maybe" date, or a double date for that matter. When you give into her demands it lowers her interest level in you. Get some balls, go out with her on YOUR terms, not hers. When she pulls that ****, simply find a way to end the call and freeze her out for a few days and call again.

I'm actually probably one of the few guys here that thinks she is into you, but you got to cut through all her B.S. and stand up to this girl and get her in line.
 

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next time anyone says "i'll think about it" just say "i'm a busy man, i need to know now!". Usually you'll get an answer. If she still tries to keep you hanging or keeps p u s s y footing around then just tell her "nevermind" no chick should be telling you to bring a friend or playing the mom card. Its either a yes or a no.
 

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neko said:
she's playing around. . . seems like she likes having your attention. Be smart about it by not giving her too much attention. If you give her the attention when she is looking for it, guess who is in control?

Take control dude. Insecure girls seek attention because of their lack of confidence.

Also, don't take her seriously if she's not going to take you seriously. If you do visit her at her place and you guys make out, do not snooze. Push it as far as you can and try to get to 3rd base.

Let us know what you do next time you talk or see her. Tell us the highlights of your experience and we can take it from there.

so she was tryin to make plans with me for today, but i cancel because i was already doin somethin with my friends. i told her some other time maybe.
lol now she's pissed at me i think because she's talking about how we planned this for days.
i had to break the plans because she brought in some last minute details that didnt go with my schedule. now i think i hurt her feelings cuz she's talkin about how guys from our school suck and wat not.
 

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lol. . . reminds me of me... lol I had one of those girls and I snoozed! she had D cups! and liked me so much and invited me to her condo right after we had lunch. . . maybe if I tell u about this girl, u can take from it bc they might be similar.

Now, this girl is daddy's little girl and they're pretty loaded$ cha ching. . . She is always texting non-stop on the phone. Probably all the other guys she turned into her *****es. She also has many stalkers. Why would she have stalkers? bc she loves attention and loves having them on the palm of her hand.


What drives her mad?
When I don't pick up the phone or text her back(lol)
Don't make yourself available all the time, that's where I screwed up.
And you're doing such a great job! Props! (hands clapping)

When is she interested?
When I tell her I'm mad at her. (she just wants me on her palm)

According to her, no one has ever treated her as rude as I have. lol

Now, what u need is 2 get some alone time w/ her. What sucks is that she may try 2 control and come up w/ stupid plans so what u need 2 do is say "hey, there's this party I'm going 2, I'll text u the address if you're interested." (something along those lines) U just need 2 get some alone time and you're set. In my case, we had some alone time and made out topless. ("Very nice" - Borat) :) I could've scored a Home Run! but I snoozed. :-( (sucks)

Also, when she does something you like, treat her nicely n give her attention. When she acts stupid, ignore her. Reward n punish

I also screwed up when she found me dancing at a club w/ some other chick.

Keep us updated dude and don't forget the condoms. I'm serious, do not 4get the condoms!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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