Girl refuses to have sex

[pabloDJ]

Ok guys, this is my first post,i ve been reading this site for like a month.
Sorry for my english, its not my first language.

So, yesterday i took home one girl im dating(like a month). When we were in my bed making out, i started to take her clothes off and she said "no, im cold" or some bs excuse like that, i laughted and made a joke about that. Then i started to make out again, and try again but she wouldnt let me.
(I had sex with her 1 time and she did something similar, but in the second try she gave in.)
At this part i dont know if i did it right but well, after that i got mad, i read somewhere that i souldnt show any reaction but i couldnt do it. I stayed silence for like 2 minutes, she kissed me and then said "babe can you take me home". I took her home, at her door she gave me 2 kisses and i left.

What do you do in this situations? What do i do now? I see her 3 times a week in dance classes.

 

[GS750]

She isn't ready. Sex comes with trust and you're not 100% there yet.

 

[VladPatton]

She isn't ready. Sex comes with trust and you're not 100% there yet.

He's been dating her for a month, it's not a trust issue.

This chick just doesn't have the sexual spark you want. Meet up at the dance class and stop dating her if you don't like where this is going (or not going). Some girls just have very low sexual interest/libido and just want a boyfriend to fit into their little social circle.

No harm done, just Next and move along. The thing with waiting on a girl is that you loose other opportunities.

 

[Tictac]

There is more than one woman you know.

 

[RagingBalls]

Ok guys, this is my first post,i ve been reading this site for like a month.
Sorry for my english, its not my first language.

So, yesterday i took home one girl im dating(like a month). When we were in my bed making out, i started to take her clothes off and she said "no, im cold" or some bs excuse like that, i laughted and made a joke about that. Then i started to make out again, and try again but she wouldnt let me.
(I had sex with her 1 time and she did something similar, but in the second try she gave in.)
At this part i dont know if i did it right but well, after that i got mad, i read somewhere that i souldnt show any reaction but i couldnt do it. I stayed silence for like 2 minutes, she kissed me and then said "babe can you take me home". I took her home, at her door she gave me 2 kisses and i left.

What do you do in this situations? What do i do now? I see her 3 times a week in dance classes.

Here's a thing i discovered to chicks, during a fvcking make-out, the more good you are kissing her, making that tongue of yours do fencing with her tongue inside her muthafvcking mouth, it makes their pvssies so very fvcking wet like niagara falls and they came already with just that. Then it makes their cIits in slumber mode inside their dungeon of poon like a happy sleeping dragon who just ate human torch for dinner.

She fvckin came and if you will touch her panties, it's dripping wet like it's enough to seal all unclosed mails in the post office.

 

[GS750]

yeah, if it's not moving at the pace that you'd like then next her.

 

[Big Nuts]

The first question that needs answering:

What is her sexual past, is/was she a virgin?

Did she ride a 10 year train of c0cks before you got your chance? If so, put your thumb up her bum.

 

[pabloDJ]

The first question that needs answering:

What is her sexual past, is/was she a virgin?

Did she ride a 10 year train of c0cks before you got your chance? If so, put your thumb up her bum.

She wasnt a virgin. She had 1 boyfriend, didnt ask more.

By the way im 17 and shes 16. I think im going to try one more time, if she refuses or make excuses, next, im not going to wait more. Bc in dance classes i know that other girls are into me.

Next time i see her should i behave like nothing happen or what?

 

[El Payaso]

She wasnt a virgin. She had 1 boyfriend, didnt ask more.

By the way im 17 and shes 16. I think im going to try one more time, if she refuses or make excuses, next, im not going to wait more. Bc in dance classes i know that other girls are into me.

Next time i see her should i behave like nothing happen or what?

Maybe she knows at that young age, she's not ready for the repercussions of what might happen.

 

[VladPatton]

She wasnt a virgin. She had 1 boyfriend, didnt ask more.

By the way im 17 and shes 16. I think im going to try one more time, if she refuses or make excuses, next, im not going to wait more. Bc in dance classes i know that other girls are into me.

Next time i see her should i behave like nothing happen or what?

Holy fück! We need age posts mandatory here!

 

[nismo-4]

She's not sexually interested in you. If you want sex but she doesn't (sadly sex is the woman's say-so), drop her ass.

Case closed. You can do better than being just friends.

 

[abe0]

16!! I do not know where you are....but that is statutory rape!!!!! If her parents find out and get pissed ...you could be in big trouble. It happened to my son's friend who was your age. Abe

 

[pabloDJ]

16!! I do not know where you are....but that is statutory rape!!!!! If her parents find out and get pissed ...you could be in big trouble. It happened to my son's friend who was your age. Abe

Im from argentina, age of sexual consent here is 13, maybe there are some restrictions from 13 to 16. I know her mother and one time she said to me if i have sex with her daughter to use protection lol.

 

[Jair213]

Im from argentina, age of sexual consent here is 13, maybe there are some restrictions from 13 to 16. I know her mother and one time she said to me if i have sex with her daughter to use protection lol.

Lmfao
thats a good mother..

 

[Jaylan]

I just knew we had young teens on our hands when I read the first post.

OP, she is young. Stop pushing it this much. Many young girls (esp virgins) need to feel safe and comfortable in order to have sex. A month isnt long enough. Why do you think sooo many of your peers end up in year long relationships in their teens before losing their virginity? Pressuring a young girl into sex, and then getting mad when you dont get your way is an easy way to turn her off. Good luck getting sex after you make her feel uncomfortable with the idea of it.

Youre both kids. If you want quick sex, go date a slvtty easy chick your age. The girl you have certainly isnt that. You need to mature a bit and learn some finesse. Take your time if you like this girl enough. If you only care about banging, like i said...go get a slvtty gf.

 

[Masculinity]

16!! I do not know where you are....but that is statutory rape!!!!! If her parents find out and get pissed ...you could be in big trouble. It happened to my son's friend who was your age. Abe

It is not statutory rape, dude...relax. That would be the case if he were two years older than her. For example, if she were 14 (born in March 1st) and he were 16 (born on February 10th) then it would be statutory rape. Another example of the same form of rape would be if he were already 18 and the girl 16. The laws vary from state to state, but the two above are pretty solid. In New Hampshire the "Live Free or Die" state, for example, 16-year-olds are considered old enough to make their own decisions without parental consent, including sexual choices such as birth control.

 

[pabloDJ]

I just knew we had young teens on our hands when I read the first post.

OP, she is young. Stop pushing it this much. Many young girls (esp virgins) need to feel safe and comfortable in order to have sex. A month isnt long enough. Why do you think sooo many of your peers end up in year long relationships in their teens before losing their virginity? Pressuring a young girl into sex, and then getting mad when you dont get your way is an easy way to turn her off. Good luck getting sex after you make her feel uncomfortable with the idea of it.

Youre both kids. If you want quick sex, go date a slvtty easy chick your age. The girl you have certainly isnt that. You need to mature a bit and learn some finesse. Take your time if you like this girl enough. If you only care about banging, like i said...go get a slvtty gf.

Ok i undestand to wait for her to be more comfortable with me. But i had sex with her 1 time, so thats not enough to get her comfortable to have sex again?

 

[Partizan]

Here's a thing i discovered to chicks, during a fvcking make-out, the more good you are kissing her, making that tongue of yours do fencing with her tongue inside her muthafvcking mouth, it makes their pvssies so very fvcking wet like niagara falls and they came already with just that. Then it makes their cIits in slumber mode inside their dungeon of poon like a happy sleeping dragon who just ate human torch for dinner.

This man speaks the truth

 

[Die Hard]

If you got her in bed and she's making out with you, you should be able to have sex with her. If you play things right!

And that's the issue in your situation, I suspect. You're probaby moving too fast, you get horny and just want to fast forward through the foreplay and get to the REAL part haha.
So hold back, just keep making out and build up to actual sex verrrrrry slowly...

Do it in many little steps, like:

1. Kissing her on the mouth
2. Kissing her neck
3. kissing her shoulders
4. kissing just above her tits

But between 2, 3 and 4 you go back to kissing her mouth. So it's mouth-neck, then mouth-shoulders, then mouth-just above tits etc.
See, it starts with kissing her mouth and it ends with kissing her tits, but this way the process takes a long time, it could take 5 or 10 minutes.

This makes a big difference! Normally, you would be kissing her on the mouth and maybe one minute later you would stop that and just move onto kissing her tits. But now you make this a long process.

Apply this to everything else. Don't take her shirt or pants off immediately but instead just move the bottom of her shirt up, so the skin of her belly shows. Then start kissing her belly... Then go lower.... until you can go no lower because her pants are there. So you just kiss the area right above her pants for a while.
The next logical step would be to take the pants off so you can go lower with your kisses and move towards her pvssy. But don't! Just stop kissing just above her pants and then suddenly go back to her mouth and neck again.
Keep kissing there for a while and then you go back to her belly and area above her pants for a second time. Maybe this time you try to remove her pants so you can go lower. If she pushes your hand away, you take her hand and start kissing the hand and kiss her arms, then kiss her mouth and other parts again.

Etcetera, etcetera, etcetera! You build it up! Everytime you kiss somewhere and can't get any further because the clothes are in the way, you return to her mouth and other open areas and then later you go back to the place where you couldn't go further because of the clothes. Suddenly, she will take the clothes off HERSELF haha, because at that moment she wants it HERSELF!
That's because you built up her desire and made her ready for it. I think the last time, you both wanted to have sex but she wanted to build it up in 15 minutes while you wanted to build it up in 5 minutes. So slow down to her speed!! She wants to do it, she just wants to do it slowwwwww.

 

[pabloDJ]

Update: i texted her a while ago, she said why i didnt talk to her yesterday, and that she is mad at me bc of that and to not bother her lol

And thanks for the advice die hard, i think i moved too fast like you said.