"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl problems...?

jamesreiter

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Alright, here's the deal. I met this girl last Wednesday, got her phone number, and hung out with her in the mall the same day. Things were looking good, so the next day I hung out with her after class. We studied for a test for about an hour and a half when we decided to go get some food. She suggested we go to her place and eat there. So we get there and it turns out she's home alone, so we sit down and eat, talk, etc. We end up going to her room and I initiate some physical contact. (Couldn't help myself.) We go at it but never actually have sex... resisted the temptation. So I go home and enjoy the weekend. We agreed not to text since I think it kind of kills the relationship, so I call her on Sunday and ask her out. She says yes and I say OK, its a date. She responded well to that! Now today, she comes into class and doesn't shoot me a look, doesn't say a word to me the entire time, and doesn't try to catch my eye. She finishes her exam early and leaves, I finish mine and walk out into the hallway, but she's long gone. This is weird since I usually have the girl hang out for me outside of the classroom so we can talk for a little while. Weird right? She was really into me last week but now I'm in limbo on where she's at with me. To move on and or to not move on. Tis the question. :cuss:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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jamesreiter said:
We go at it but never actually have sex... resisted the temptation.
wait.... did you(gaaaaaaaaaaaaaay) or did she?

jamesreiter said:
She was really into me last week but now I'm in limbo on where she's at with me. To move on and or to not move on. Tis the question. :cuss:
has it literally been one day? like... seriously? I mean, give it the week before you jump to conclusions or make any harsh/rash decisions...
 

Jack Wealthy

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She was on her period. She wants to **** you and knows she can't resist the temptation to get with you, so she'll avoid you because she doesn't want that moment where you're hooking up and she has to say "By the way I'm bleeding" as you go to put your had down her pants.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Jack Wealthy said:
She was on her period. She wants to **** you and knows she can't resist the temptation to get with you, so she'll avoid you because she doesn't want that moment where you're hooking up and she has to say "By the way I'm bleeding" as you go to put your had down her pants.
Can confirm. Not exciting.
 

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and thats when you look her sexily in the eyes and calmly say " I'm going to eat your period pvssy till I come out looking like the joker" with a giant grin on your face
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skyline

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Indifference is key here. If you feel offended by her ignoring you a few times then that is oneitis. The point is, who cares. Unless she insulted you or told you not to talk to her then its whatever. She ignores you so what it doesnt mean you still wont hook up again. And besides shes the one missing out on all the fun and joy she has with you.

My advice, act like nothing happened. Maybe withdraw a little though. And talk to other girls.
 
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