Girl playin games

[asianbboy]

I'm at this party drunk out of my mind. I'd been chatting with this really cute girl and I've got my arm over her and she's snuggling with me. Yeah, real cute ****. And shes letting me run my hand up her thigh. Thought it was goin to be easy. The strange thing is she keeps leaving and then coming back, keeps running to her girlfriend saying "you gotta stop me from hooking up" and stupid **** like that. I go in for a kiss, then she kisses me for an instant then pulls back. Later she asks this boner friend of hers to make out and goes with him to a bedroom (they didn't do anything other than make out though lmao).
One thing. I didnt really complement her when she was fishing for it. Maybe I shouldve? I think she got offended when I said she was "...kinda cute".
Or, maybe I should've taken a lead. I was really passive and she initiated everything. I think if I moved around the house with her instead of stayin on the couch she would've felt that I was in control.

 

[devilkingx2]

sounds like a tease to me.

 

[Blistex]

maybe I should've taken a lead. I was really passive and she initiated everything.

That could certainly have been a factor. Try leading next time and see how that works for you.

 

[idoloveromance]

She's teasing and assessing your "game". you should have taken the lead.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

I'm at this party drunk out of my mind. I'd been chatting with this really cute girl and I've got my arm over her and she's snuggling with me. Yeah, real cute ****. And shes letting me run my hand up her thigh. Thought it was goin to be easy. The strange thing is she keeps leaving and then coming back, keeps running to her girlfriend saying "you gotta stop me from hooking up" and stupid **** like that. I go in for a kiss, then she kisses me for an instant then pulls back. Later she asks this boner friend of hers to make out and goes with him to a bedroom (they didn't do anything other than make out though lmao).
One thing. I didnt really complement her when she was fishing for it. Maybe I shouldve? I think she got offended when I said she was "...kinda cute".
Or, maybe I should've taken a lead. I was really passive and she initiated everything. I think if I moved around the house with her instead of stayin on the couch she would've felt that I was in control.

If she's playing games then don't get uptight about it. Just my two cents.

 

[Tortendieb]

I know a girl like that. Just teasing and then running away. How to get them interested: show as much BALLS as you can.

We were at this music festival (just a group of 5 ppl including her) and she had just been playfully touching everyone and I was getting kind of irritated. She was hot, but she was becoming more and more of an attention *****. Also she was kind of a dominating kind of girl, quite aggressive. Anyway, at some time (we were just in a huge crowd) she was like "i'm cold" and started frantically rubbing my upper body up and down, like you do with a dog.

So something just snapped in my mind "Time to end the shenanigans!" and I just quickly grabbed her boobs. WHAM. SHOCK. Immediately she complained, of course, BUT I just said, kinda arrogantly, "Whoops, must have slipped". Dirty Smirk. I could pull this off because I was honestly annoyed with her behaviour.

She gave me a very cold shoulder and just went off with another guy from the group to see one of the bands, but I couldn't care less. I wasn't infatuated and, for better or worse, I had busted her game.

BUT!! Later that evening I met her again and she was suddenly sitting on my lap. "But keep those hands away" - "yeah yeah" - I didn't. If we had been in private I would have escalated just there and then. Unfortunately there wasn't really an option to have sex (where?). Later gave me a LONG hug goodnight - you know, like those when the girl wants you to kiss her.

Didn't really care about her but, at that time, was just dumbfounded at HOW MUCH EFFECT grabbing her boobs had. Really. She texted me to hang out even after that, but I had labelled her as "unstable attention wh0re, must avoid".

Met her over a year later, and she told me that she just couldn't figure me out, that I was such a nice guy but at the same time a huge *******, and that she didn't know whether to love or hate me....

What a honest response! And thus is you power: show big balls, and it's easy because they are stupid AWs anyway. Of course, only good for a one night lay, but NEVER for a LTR.