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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Girl performed a disappearing act

n00bPimp

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So 3 weeks ago I was contacted by chick who i used to be close friends through most of highschool. Heres some background. She moved away after highschool so we lost contact for about a year, until one day she surprisingly dropped by my house, we spent the day together and the next day she called me to go pick her up. So i did, some **** happened with her b/f and she had to go home 10mins after i picked her up. After waiting for her call for 2 days I tryied to contact her but she wouldnt pick up her homephone (she didnt have a cell), she even blocked my sn. This left me perplexed but I shortly got over it. Fast forward 4 months she calls me again, tells me she's bought a new car and wants to go to a fair to hangout, I said ok and waited for her but she never came, and she again didnt pick up my calls.

Now, 1 year after our last contact, she contacted me through myspace 3 weeks ago. I had also moved homes so she asked me where do i live now and she told me she went to my old house to see me but didnt find me. I didnt give her my new address or phone#, I just asked her for her phone# and I called her a week after this. So we talked and it seems she liked my new DJ persona that she wanted to chyll. 2 days after declining her invitation i tell her to come to the mall with me, so we did, and i got lost on purpose just to create some drama and it worked, we had a great time. She called me the next day to go to a club, but there was a change of plans and we didnt get together, then this saturday she wanted to take me to a club again but i already had plans. Then she called me on sunday but i told her i'm watching the superbowl so she told me to call her after its done. I didnt call her till today tuesday. Thing is she calls me everyday, but she hasnt called me back, and now I find out she's deleted her myspace profile. That's the only other way i can contact her so i think thats why she's deleted it. I'm just wondering if you guys think she has mental problems? Like she has a lot of friends on her list and all so why would she delete her whole profile just so i can stop talking to her? She used to have another myspace profile before 2 and she also deleted it after she decided to stop talking to me.
I don't see what i could've done better. Now im speechless, i was sort of expecting her to pull the same **** again but then things seemed to go great, and now shes disappeared again, its just nuts. What do you guys think?
 

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white cloud 8

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Dude....she's f*cked in the head, let it go :up:. If she is the slightest bit interested, she will make the effort (believe me), sounds to me this girl plays mind games :down:.
 
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