"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl online - I know she likes me

TheNewGuy

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Ok, so i've been talking to this girl online for a while now. I've been wanting to meet up with her, but her dad is real strict and won't let her go to the mall. Basically, I want to either meet up with her or just stop wherever this is going. How would I confront her with this? I'm thinking of just being straightforward, and telling her to somehow get to the mall or I'm not wasting my time.

And yes, I am positive she is into me. I don't like to use the phone (small house, parents always listen in) so I don't care about her number. AIM is a communication medium just like everything else.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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decade

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We all know these typesof girls :down: She needs to want you :woo: Exactly...tell her to make up her damn mind the next time you see her and don't let her think it over. She doesn't need to, if a girl wants you she'll do what it takes to have you. If a girl isn't willing to do anything for you then she shouldn't expect you to do anything for her, if this happens leave her and don't take any regrets.
 

oakraiderz2

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Get off the comuter and me a real girl instead of a sexual predator coming for your goods...hahaha...seriously though, stop it.
 

oakraiderz2

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Get off the comuter and met a real girl instead of a sexual predator coming for your goods...hahaha...seriously though, stop it.
 
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