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Girl on POF acting a bit weird...?

DTR90

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So I thought I'd sign up to POF just to check it out, test the water, see what sort of responses I can get, that kind of thing. I've been on it in the past and got nowhere but I guess this is what single life does to you.

Anyway, I sent a message to this girl, a 7/10 and I used the old "Can I be honest with you...?" line. So naturally she replied asking what I had to be honest about and I said "I think you should change your personality type to 'enigmatic' or 'mysterious'", as I felt that would keep the conversation going. So she kept asking me stuff, like how I told her she had that "aura" about her, and what I meant by that, and what her profile gave off. (I think she might have been taking my banter too seriously!) so then I changed to the "you just seem too normal on this website full of crazy people!" line.

Then she replies later on, saying that she was going to ask if I wanted to go on a date, but she looked at my profile, seen that I'd mentioned that I like Lucozade and that I was a can of coke guy. So I thought, alright, this is obviously some kind of message! After I replied saying that coffee would be a compromise as it contains caffeine, she said that she is bipolar and has tourrettes, obviously referring to the 'normal' message earlier. Then, she asks me "so are we over then?" and I thought this was flirty banter so I just went with it, and then she replied with "by the way, I'm actually a guy called Adam." I'm not sure if she had a male friend round at hers and they were taking the piss, or a male friend snuck onto her computer and started sending people messages over POF or if this was some kind of humour that she was employing, I don't know. But after I sent a message back saying "nice to meet you Adam" I've not heard from her since.

Just wondering what your views are on this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Maximus Rex

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From what I hear about PoF, a b@tch "actin' a little weird," is par for the course. In Rex's opinion, this hoe is playin' too damn much. Bipolarism is like AIDS, that in this context (a dating website,) you don't joke about it, because the muthaf&cka might actually manic depressive.
 

HyperAnalyze

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Girls on these dating websites are majority going to be crazy, bat **** weird, have emotional problems or are usually WAY too entitled for anything.

It's rare that you see a normal outgoing girl on these websites.
 

GS750

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This one is gonna be a negative Ghost Rider. Maybe its a girl messing around, maybe its a guy playing with her computer, or maybe its a tranny. Block her...or him.
 
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Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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