“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Okay so i posted a week or so ago about how she kind of ignored me or whatever. Well eveything is fine. Ive been hanging out with her and meeting her friends and everything is cool.

Well i was in Vegas for thanksgiving and she wanted me to call her and talk to her and saturday. So i did and like 2 seconds into our convo she was like
"Hey will you go to the semi-formal with me?" I said i was going to ask her anyway so yea. so us and two of her friends hung out again yesterday and then we went back to her house and she was as usual kinoing me and laying on me.

So the Semi is on friday and i think im gonna make a move but im not sure how. Advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok, she probably ignored because you weren't being Slick Rick. You're being Pushy Pete.

STOP BEING PUSHY PETE until the dance.

Also, whyd you tell her you were gonna ask her after she asked you? You're taking the challenge out of it!

OK, so here's the plan from today forward;we are gonna get this girl:

Talk to her seldomly until then, but when you do, be happy, upbeat, listen to her, and smile alot.

When the night comes, make sure you look SEXY. REALLY REALLY SEXY. She'll take notice.

Smile at her, be real nice, don't say stupid stuff. Stay on topic. She'll take notice that you're trying to make a good impression on her.

On the dance floor, get freaky, and stay freaky. Make sure you smell good and you're having fun. She'll take notice.

During like the last slow song, be like "Hey thanks for goin with me", and look her in the eyes, little smile here and there. See push your face closer to her, almost forehead to forehead, keep looking at her eyes. See if she wants it. If she does, slowly give her a kiss. Make sure your breath smells nice. Kiss a couple of times, and after that last dance, hold her hand for a while, fingers interlocked.

You're in, mission accomplished. Call her saturday, ask her about her day, geuiniely listen, and after liek 5 minutes, be like "hey, thanks again for goin with me, I had a lot of fun goin with you, I think we should kick it next week what do you say?" She'll definitely say yes.

KEY: Don't be nervous about the kiss, don't hesitate. Hesitation kills. Calm confidence. Not energy, not "God I wanna get this over with". Patience. It will come. Patience.
 

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well i never called her to ask her if she wanted to hang out. She always calls me. does that even matter. And she only ignored me for like 1 day because she was pissed off at something else and she doesnt talk too anyone when shes mad, in her words
 

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ccs! Focus on AC/DC's post, that is damn good, and I'm bookmarking this page for myself.

*Don't you dare edit it, I'll cry*
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ccs, that chick is yours if you get her in the correct situation. I'm sure that if you kissed her right now, she wouldnt back away.
 

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Wear some really good smelling cologne so when you dance, she smells it, and it will turn her on. Women love when men smell good... I can't stress it enough.
 

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be sure not to wear too much though!!! if you're gonna be close and dancing she'll be able to smell it

some of these girls have smellin skills like a.... i dunno i shouldve stayed in shcool :(
 
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