The LadyKiller
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I attended a friend's house party over the weekend. For the second time in the past month, I ran into a particular HB8. Both times, things between us were bizarre.
Party #1: I roll in with a couple of friends. While HB8 says hi, any conversation I try to have with her doesn't leave the ground (she gives short answers, etc.). As the night goes on and she has a few drinks, she suddenly becomes more outgoing and begins playfully teasing me. She's much more chatty and we share a few laughs. I figured the alcohol loosened her up and that explains the 180. But then party #2 happened.
Party #2: I walk in and see HB8. Similar to the previous party, my initial attempt at smalltalk doesn't leave the ground. She seems more comfortable with others in attendance, so I forget and hang out with my friends. However, there might have been something beneath the surface. First, HB8's best friend, who I have never seen or met, appeared to recognize me when we locked eyes. I picked up on it, I introduced myself, we smalltalked, and I went on about the party. Later on, I head towards the beer pong table to play some of my friends, figuring one of my boys nearby will join me. I turn around and there's HB8, who's setting up the table to play on my team. All of a sudden, she's outgoing, initiating kino (playful punches, high fives) and playfully teasing me consistently. Alcohol certainly played a part, as HB8 was instantly a different person. I had to work extremely early the next day, so I wasn't in a position to try anything (especially with her friends in position to c*ckblock as well).
Simply put, my question is, what the he!!? For some background, I know this HB8 outside of the parties, though not really well. We have some mutual friends. I asked if she wanted to hang out a couple months back, but we were never able to finalize plans and things fizzled. When I see her during the day, she's either quiet/aloof towards me (in a non-interested sort of way), OR she is smiling/laughing at any joke I attempt (in a more interested sort of way), though still not being too chatty.
I understand that alcohol is going to make someone more outgoing and comfortable, but this is as topsy-turvy behavior I've seen out of a HB who made no great efforts to meet up with me a couple months ago. I "nexted" her at the time (don't have time for head games), but am still confused by her actions as described in the post.
Party #1: I roll in with a couple of friends. While HB8 says hi, any conversation I try to have with her doesn't leave the ground (she gives short answers, etc.). As the night goes on and she has a few drinks, she suddenly becomes more outgoing and begins playfully teasing me. She's much more chatty and we share a few laughs. I figured the alcohol loosened her up and that explains the 180. But then party #2 happened.
Party #2: I walk in and see HB8. Similar to the previous party, my initial attempt at smalltalk doesn't leave the ground. She seems more comfortable with others in attendance, so I forget and hang out with my friends. However, there might have been something beneath the surface. First, HB8's best friend, who I have never seen or met, appeared to recognize me when we locked eyes. I picked up on it, I introduced myself, we smalltalked, and I went on about the party. Later on, I head towards the beer pong table to play some of my friends, figuring one of my boys nearby will join me. I turn around and there's HB8, who's setting up the table to play on my team. All of a sudden, she's outgoing, initiating kino (playful punches, high fives) and playfully teasing me consistently. Alcohol certainly played a part, as HB8 was instantly a different person. I had to work extremely early the next day, so I wasn't in a position to try anything (especially with her friends in position to c*ckblock as well).
Simply put, my question is, what the he!!? For some background, I know this HB8 outside of the parties, though not really well. We have some mutual friends. I asked if she wanted to hang out a couple months back, but we were never able to finalize plans and things fizzled. When I see her during the day, she's either quiet/aloof towards me (in a non-interested sort of way), OR she is smiling/laughing at any joke I attempt (in a more interested sort of way), though still not being too chatty.
I understand that alcohol is going to make someone more outgoing and comfortable, but this is as topsy-turvy behavior I've seen out of a HB who made no great efforts to meet up with me a couple months ago. I "nexted" her at the time (don't have time for head games), but am still confused by her actions as described in the post.
