girl in work issue

[tjslove]

I need help

I have been chatting with this girl in work.......it all started when she told me of her mother's health problem and I told her that my mother had the same problem. Later on it has led to where we would sit next to her in work and talk.

The story changed immensely. She started asking me if I liked her hair and she commented on a haircut I got. Afterward, she was saying that she needed a date for a wedding(THREE TIMES) and I answered back that I think she would manage. Later, just little comments that were argumentative came up and then I unfortunately drunk dialed her and told her I liked her......which I just laughed off.

I am at a standstill and do not know how much more to write. The other day at work I was sitting at a different desk and she asked if I would go sit next to her......which I did not.

I am not sure how to close the deal without causing an earthquake

 

[Morphiex]

oki...?

what do you want? a date with her?, then she is already showing you the signs.... Just grab your god damn balls and ask her out...
i dont see the problem, she even asked you out when she said she needed a date for a wedding, she kinda hinted it, but i guess u didnt understand that, they dont want to make the first move , she is waiting for you to do so, just ask her out if she ays no then move on.... better to know now then to walk around for months thinking of ways to impress her....

 

[flexion_]

Don't date women at work. And from the sounds of it she works closely with you so you are just asking for trouble.