"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joe45

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i'm dating a girl right now and i met her off the bus stop. shes japanese overseas student studying english.

whats your take on a girl if i'm seeing her and we went out for 4 dates and i have never met any of her friends and she never invites me out with her group of friends. i see on her facebook shes quiete popular always going out-halloween party, friend last day party, travelling to toronto, winnipeg pics, friends drinking party,pretty social and goes out a lot

. we still are barely knew each other, but what happens if we continue to date,and i never meet any of her friends or ever get invite out to her so called outings.

. whats your take on this. do you think she has something to hide. like shes seeing a guy friend in her group of friends or going out and at sametime meeting other guys too. as the reason why she never invites me out or ask me to come out

i just dont want to be played and stuff. i`m inexperience at my old age in dating and girls so i just want the most advice and stuff i can get.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Four dates? FOUR??? And you want to meet my friends, eat dinner with Mom, smoke cigars with my Dad and eat cookies my Granny made?

Why are you in such a hurry? You don't even know my middle name and you want to be getting in to my social circle already?

She isn't hiding anything. She just wants to get to know you first! Makie sure you'll actually stick around for a while before she brings you in. Don't worry!
 
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Max Power

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joe45 said:
what happens if we continue to date,and i never meet any of her friends or ever get invite out to her so called outings.
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You may have anxiety issues if you are even thinking about stuff like this after four dates. Okay, let's say you do continue to go out with her and she doesn't invite you to any of her outings. What's the worst that could happen? It won't kill you.

If you continue to go out with her and feel like this girl doesn't respect you then drop her. But you no where close yet to this being an issue.
 
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cart ahead of the horse. counting chickens before they hatch.

Let me guess, she's the only girl your dating right now so you building up a future in your head and then worrying about it before/if it even gets here.
 
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