"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl I like lives with my home girl and another girl...really throwing me off lol..

spiegel549

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My home girl moved into a new pad with 2 cute girls. Basically from day 1 my home girl invited me over for dinner to meet her new roomies and we all ended up having a blast, going out and partying that night. I found out through my home girl that the one roomie thought I was hot, so end of that night I pushed to sleep with her but we only fooled around and nothing more. The girl is not a ho. So I started pursuing her, she seems like a "keeper"

Its been 2 weeks. We have hung out 3 times, she kisses me all the time when were together at her pad watching movies etc. but everytime I go over to hang either my home girl or her other roomie is there. I always have to fuking entertain 2-3 girls at once lol.

My home girl is always putting good vibes and things out there for me but the girl I am pursuing is soooo brutally honest with me I am not use to it. She tells me straight up she didn't expects to meet me. She likes me etc, and that she is talking to another guy but not kissing and chilling with him like her and I are. I can confirm that too because my home girl snoops around for me and tells me whats what.

Basically I want to know how to play it. The girl is a great girl, but a bit of a challenge. Has a lot of stress with school, work etc but when we get together its fuking awesome, we have a blast.

I am just thinking that I gotta watch what I do and say because I know she is getting the opinion from two others girls about me.

What do you guys think? How should I be playing it when I am not around? Going ghost once in a while, slow playing it? She hits me up, calls me etc but not all the time.

Thoughts and opinions?

Sorry I wrote this really fast, so any questions on details let me know thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No.Danny

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jimmy18 said:
Invite her to yours for a "movie"
Oh LA LA papi, you so smooth mmmmmmmmm:rock: :woo:
 
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