"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl I hadn't seen for a year

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Well 2 years ago I met this really cute girl at a friend's party, we hit it off and danced together...at the end of the party we just said goodbye (i was afc back then). Fast forward a year, same friend's party , we met again...this time I was talkign to a group of like 4 girls and I got the first girl's number and a second girl I met there number. I dated the second one a coupel times.....then when I was gonna call the first one...I forgot where she wrote ehr # , I was drunk that night and I think she wrote it on my arm so when I passed out it might have gotten erased!

Fastforward a year.

Anyway, about 4 weeks ago Im at work(mall) and I see two girls walking by...as usual im checking them out...one of them makes really strong eye contact and keeps walking then she turns around and says "We know each other!" and then I remember who she was...we talked for like 30secs and her friend wanted to leave (cb) so I got her number. Fastforward to day...I had completely forgotten about her because I've been busy with this other chick...but this didnt go anywhere...and today I was looking thru my phone and I found her name....Im wondering, should I give her a call this week and set something up?

I might have waited too long and she might have forgotten about me ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blatant truth

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True dat.. you aint a wanksta so dont act like one

I have resently had something like this happen to me this week.

STORY: about two years ago when I was in school I sat beside this OMG bust a nut' hotchick an HB9 in my opinion. Bright blue eyes like a tigeress RAWR! And busty round firm b00bs. All The guys around tried showing off and all...I was afc back then and didnt know what I know now >.< *SmacK!*

Anyways I went to a place called StoneOven Pizza and she was at the register was with my boy and his g/f when they asked me to pick what I wanted.. Made my presence felt with my BL and say Dont Rush Me.. She was eyeing me with almost bedroom eyes as he was smiling warmly at her and ordered.. She first mentioned she thought she knew me.. Played it off.. " Yeah, I think I remember you.... (name) was it? Yeah now I remember
We had history class together while back...

Caught up some kinda talked to my boy more than her.... asked him what the date was... Then I said I didnt have to work tomarrow.... She got curious.... as women ususally do.. asked me where I worked... and then more IOI like mad...

When we were done she was amazed by how much I ate.... ( I can make buffet joints go out of business..!!) She was like thats amazing... Me: I can do alot of amazing things cause it happens to be my middle name babay!

When we where leaving.. she said the usual stuff hostesses say... have a great night etc... Me being ultra smooth said. " It'll be even better if you where with me ;) .. She turned red.. and Got the number.... Wish the Don Mega luck
 
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