"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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iCY

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if you know a girl has a high interest in you what would be your next step?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ASK HER THE FVCK OUT.

ARE YOU EVEN KIDDING ME?
 

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o woops wat i meant was what you would say. like the lines you personally use
 

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Def. not the greatest first thread. Read the bible and live by it. Ask her to come over to show her you're interested. The trick here is to keep her around, but don't smother her and don't make her your number one priority. Good luck.
 

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ive looked through the bible and i dont get where you people are finding all this information
alot of the stuff i read is how you should view life and view others and other non usefull stuff. i see almost the same theme repeated over and over again in the bible sections. mabey im just looking at the wrong places
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by iCY
alot of the stuff i read is how you should view life and view others and other non usefull stuff
good one. haha. I know that must be a joke.

ask her the fvck out. invite her to join you for lunch and some entertaining conversation. if she has high interest, as you say she does, what is the problem? get over yourself.
 

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Originally posted by iCY
ive looked through the bible and i dont get where you people are finding all this information
alot of the stuff i read is how you should view life and view others and other non usefull stuff. i see almost the same theme repeated over and over again in the bible sections. mabey im just looking at the wrong places
You just don't know how to read :p

Read every single word of every single article, then get out there and experience. Not every anser is in the bible, but its one hell of a start.
 

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Originally posted by iCY
if you know a girl has a high interest in you what would be your next step?
....your next step should be to read the fùcking bible. Too many people post on here without reading the bible first. Then when you're done, read it again.

Then, if you still feel like it, ask this girl out before she loses interest.

If you have questions about the lines to use....search the threads for something. By the way, it's not about the lines you use, it's about asking her out!
 

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how would you ask someone out for a coffee

open your mouth slowly and form these simple words

"hi... would you like to go grab a coffee?"

man. you're screwed if you cant even say something as simple as this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go crank your yanker doooshbag.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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if I knew she had High interest in me I'd work her with C+F, basically dominate the situation and know in my heart that she's below me...pedestal? in this situation its me on it not her-- that's when its really fun.
 
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