"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl giving all good signs but flakes - next.. but this is different

TheGambino

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Yap i def did wont ever talk to her again too much sh1t already
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino said:
Yap i def did wont ever talk to her again too much sh1t already
Can I quote this in the next thread you start about this girl?
 

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@cword yes you can 'case closed'
 
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Yeah, good you are moving on... It is funny because I had this crush on this girl and I thought she was GORGEOUS. Really attracted to her. Well, after a while she starting acting different and I started losing interest. I looked back at the same picture a month later and I was thinking "wow, what was I attracted to there?". I mean, she was cute but nothing special. Having said that, this girl is pretty average in my books but I can see how you might be totally into her because of other things going on in your life/etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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