girl from gym

[johncrawford]

Meet this girl at the gym 8 weeks ago. I talked to her after a few days of eye contact. She seemed to look at me I lot I noticed. First I got her name then I let her be. The next day I talked to her again. We had a good conversation. Then she said she had a boyfriend !
So the next weeks I just keep it friendly etc.
Now that I’m talking to other females in the gym. She is starting to make a little small talk.
Example : isn’t it hot in here today with a open smile !
Right in front of another female that I am building up a relationship with.
I saw her boyfriend in the gym a few days back. I just carried on as usual with my exercises.
I noticed she was trying to look in my direction a few times to try and get my reaction.

What do you think I should do next ?



"Attention ho"... I generally don't entertain pvssy i won't get. One mo thing, stop over analyzing body language it can be deceptive, just go for what you want.


What I would do is exactly what your doing, play it cool. Maybe she isnt happy in her realtionship, so she is now checking you out. My guess would be to wait it out, if she likes you bad enough she will dump that dude and be like well im single again. Also if you try to pick her up now her b/f might want to beat your ass. so man just wait.

 

[johncrawford]

Was at the gym today saw this girl Sam again,but choose to ingrone eye contact.Did my usual stretching excersises,then started with my workout.
I was doing some benchpress to start off with.Then within 5 or so minutes Sam came over to use a machine that was next to me.
When I was taking a short break between sets,I walked past her and said 'hi'
Got the usual smile as I always do from her.

Later on I was talking to my buddy Mark between shoulder excersises.When Sam came up and wished me a happy Christmas/New New kind of thing.
The deal was she actually said my name 'John' !

I had stopped saying her name for the last week by the way,just to test her.

What's up

 

[ryannath]

She's hungry for your meat, whether she has a bf or not.

 

[johncrawford]

She's hungry for your meat, whether she has a bf or not.

I hope so :yes:

 

[johncrawford]

New girl

Was at the gym today .Saw a girl called Natalie who I like .Hadn’t seen her for a while due to the holiday season. Chatted to her for a little bit then took the attention away. Soon afterward Sam came in .I said hi Sam bah bah bah etc. Anyway Natalie faced dropped when I said Sam’s name. She asked me how my holidays were. Latter on I could see Natalie watching in the gym mirror’s to see if I was looking at Sam. I knew her game and didn’t.:yes:

I can see that Natalie is thinking but what ?

Is this Sam a problem I wonder !

 

[MissionX]

Talk to them seperatly, be a mystery towards Sam, and **** with Nat. Simple cat and mouse....

I know it's easier said than done.

Slip sam a note to meet you somewhere at a specific time be there waiting when she asks what going on you say.... "This," and kiss her. then walk away. or if shes into it keep going from there.

Payne

 

[johncrawford]

Same old Sam !

Went to the Gym later than my usual time. Sam appeared to be surprised to see me.
Saw my buddy Mike ,also Sam but just said hi with a muted Hello with no eye contact.
Talked to Mike for a while. I noticed a long time ago she does not like it when I talk to the guys but not her at all !

Then I started with my routine, Sam used a machine that was next to me. I took a break and walked past her. Noticed she was looking at the floor with a pissed off look. This has happened before ,so nothing new to me. She did this exercise faster than usual, then she left without finishing her usual routine.
Again this has happened before!

What is going on with this Women !

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Haha, you're focusing on the one playing the games, the one who can't stand anybody else beside her getting anybody's attention.

You have that other girl interested and you're worried about the one with a borefriend. Come on man, just ignore her, but be polite.

 

[johncrawford]

Sam again

Haha, you're focusing on the one playing the games, the one who can't stand anybody else beside her getting anybody's attention.

You have that other girl interested and you're worried about the one with a borefriend. Come on man, just ignore her, but be polite.

Saw Sam again at the gym today. Just said ‘HI’ so that I was polite. She started talking about how yesterday was busy and that she preferred it when it was quieter etc, anyway some kind of bull****

I just said yeah bah bah bah. I did not indicate any attempt at forming a conversation.
Made sure I avoided any proper eye contact when I was in front of the mirror working out.
I saw her smile to herself once as well. I think she knows what I’m doing.

Hope she’s off my case now.

 

[johncrawford]

Was at the gym today(again !) .Saw a different girl this time called Katherleen who I also like .Hadn’t seen her for a while as well due to the holiday season. Anyway I played it cool to start with,did the usual how was your hoildays etc.Then I told her that, I won't be coming to the gym at my usual times much anymore, because of a new job.Her face dropped when I told her this,then I asked her 'can we go for a drink sometime next week' then she replied 'if you want me too!' This is the same girl who said 'Why' when I aked what her name was a wee while ago.

So next Monday night that's me sorted then
This girl could not stop smiling for the next few minutes

Is it just me or Have I got a shy one here

 

[steves2kool]

Nice cant wait to see how this ends