"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl @ Fashion showroom: HELP ASAP!!

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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Went to a FASHION SHOWROOM today. Was looking for a particular sweater. Spoke to this girl on FACEBOOK who works there before hand about coming down to the showroom. Went down there, waited for the creator of this group for 15 minutes. Happens that shes in the car with the CREATOR of the fashion group.

Now, this girl is FRIGGIN HOT! Body wise is easily a 10!!! She was stearing at me through the car windows when they drove up and saw me outside the building. Anyways. Go upstairs in the clothing section of this underground workshop showroom. Guy (Creator) tells me to have s look around and see what I like. Another guy comes in (CEO of the fashion group), already having that ****block agenda on his face.

Girl comes in the room. Creator tells me to TRY ON some of the clothing. As I'm mediling with taking my clothes off, I ask "what, isnt there any changing rooms? " Girl nervously says, do you want me to leave?'' with a smile on her face. I say, "Nah, I want you two (2 guys) to leave" as a joke. I tell them, I have to go the cashpoint and draw out some money as they didnt have a cashier. Girl asks me if I know my way out. I say no, I dont :) (obviously I do).

Walks me downstairs, as we're 2nd floor down, she asks me, where I'm from and we get a little-short convo going. At this time, shes locked deep into my eyes, kinda walking asif she wants me to see her bvtt. Then asks me, where Im parked (even tho I dont drive) and to give her a ring when Im coming back, so she can answer the door.

Come back. CREATOR answers door this time. As I try on the clothes, girl recommends a shirt for me, and says "You're kinda fit, sorry, if I saw you in that, I would ooohhhh (muffled), because your chest is pumped .." So I end up buying the shirt (not becuase she said that, but because it was a nice shirt).

NOW I don't know if she said this for ADVERTISEMENT or PERSUATION SALES for the group, but with the looks she was giving me. I could tell something was up. She seemd nervously talkative with the rest of the guys. Its funny, that they ALL stayed in the room ss I tried on the garments. CREATOR says "nah its kool dude, its nothing, everybody comes in and tries everything on, even GIRLS"

Now I'm kinda wondering if I gave the impression as being SHY or INSECURE about something?. Later on, I sent her a message on Facebook about when theyre getting some new stock released. She said "In one or two months babe" - AND THAT WAS IT, I sent back "Im going to file a complaint for sexual harrasment on your behalf lol .." I havent had a reply back as she had gone OFFLINE before this.

HOW SHOULD I GO ABOUT DJ'IN THIS!!! She has the aura of being a woman who goes on loads of holidays and likes guys with MONEY!!! I didnt know we both live in the same area also! Her social background seems alot wider than mine and she is a year older than me. Statistically, she isnt out of my LEAGUE, but because of her SOCIAL PROOF/BACKGROUND it could differ.


NEED HELP ASAP GUYS.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it doesn't sound like you have anywhere to go with this.

you never said anything about meeting up in the future or anything to that affect.

all you can do at this point is ask her out via facebook. she will either be down with it or not.
 

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hover411 said:
it doesn't sound like you have anywhere to go with this.

you never said anything about meeting up in the future or anything to that affect.

all you can do at this point is ask her out via facebook. she will either be down with it or not.
Well I said I would come back for a particular sweater and she asked if I had her number, but the guy who owns the showroom ****BLOCKED and said " I HAVE HIS NUMBER". Then she was like "Oh ..oh okay well I'll email you when we have some new stuff, so you can come down..:)"

So in those terms, I did say I WOULD MEET UP. Or appear again. But unfortunatley not for solo one-to-one with her DIRECTLY. I might have to perform a miracle in terms of "LAVISH LIFESTYLE" for her to be drawn in MORE.
 

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Well,

you can only peddle around around so much,

eventually you will have to be direct about it and just ask her out.

you did get c-b'd by the dude. next time just insist, "but I don't have hers" with a little charm and get it anyway.

regardless of what transpired, you only have 1 play the way i see it.

or you can string yourself along, by the d-bag's clothes and hope for an opportunity to ask her out again in person.
 

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hover411 said:
Well,

you can only peddle around around so much,

eventually you will have to be direct about it and just ask her out.

you did get c-b'd by the dude. next time just insist, "but I don't have hers" with a little charm and get it anyway.

regardless of what transpired, you only have 1 play the way i see it.

or you can string yourself along, by the d-bag's clothes and hope for an opportunity to ask her out again in person.
I hear that bra! :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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