"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl either doesn't want me or playing lots of games...

toddC

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Okay, I haven't been on the forum for quite a while but this is truely the first girl in a few years that has got me thinking like her like this so I figured I would get some insight from you guys. I like to look at myself as an in-shape, good-looking guy and usually the girls don't put up much of a fight for me. But this one is different. She is BY FAR the hottest girl I've ever wanted. She is at least a 9.5 in my book. Now heres the story...

This past saturday night my friend was having a party. Now this girl, lets call her J, came over with a few of her friends (one of which is one of my best friends girlfriends, we'll call the GF GF). Ok so we were drinking having a good time and my friends GF comes over and goes hey toddC I shouldn't be telling you this but J thinks your really hot. Now after I heard that I started some game up but to be honest I do lack in that department. To make a long story short I f*cked up and she ending up leaving. Now all those girls came over again last night because it was one of their birthdays. J was there. I made sure that when I said hello I gave her the longer hug by a second or so. So the night goes on and were talking in a bunch or what not and a few times she would walk past me and do the same thing to me. She would like leave her hand on my back for a few seconds or so. Then we were all smoking. She wanted to smoke so I was like ok come in my room. Shes like ok after this shot (we were drinking). Somehow the shot got conveniently pushed back further and further to the point where they finally took it and just left. Now I don't know whats going on. I don't know if she wants me or if she was just drunk and wanted me that past Saturday. Also she didn't give me like a good good-bye it was just like a bye everyone kind of thing.

Guys I've been out of the game for quite some time so please give me answers.

Also for some reason recently I've been having trouble keeping convo with girls...why is this I just don't understand it how should I be brining up topics and what not.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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