"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so im just sittin here 1am browsing and this chick that i sometimes talk to on line msgs me and tells me how we gonna hang out when she moves (shes moving state i live in) in few weeks. she then goes on cam and im just sittin there watching and trying to make small talk, telling her how sexy hair black hair is now (use to be blonde) and sayin how we gonna chill out when she comes.

but it seems shes gona be online for a while so i just said brb and went offline. i feel like if i sit there talkin and watching her it will get boring at one stage and yea... did i do the right thing? i dont really wanna talk to her much online until i meet her. keep the mystery you know? its not the first time ive bailed on her or not replied. is it okay to sit there online talkin to her for an hour or something and still be able to maintain attraction until we meet?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol serious... this girl sounds interested in meeting me when she gets here. i don't wanna fuk it up by chatting to her online all morning and tryin to get her naked on cam. we've already exchange numbers... just cant do much till she moves here.
 
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you did the right thing. you cant sit there and talk for ages and 'maintain the mystery'

wait till shes moved then make your moves IN PERSON!!!!
 
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