“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LittleBigOne

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What does it mean when you talk to a girl who you are attracted to and already know a bit and you notice she is glaring to another guy (who she knows) at the same time. I was annoyed by it and told her i had to to somewhere else and cutted of the conversation. It felt awkward, it gave me the feeling she´s more attracted to that guy. But okay, what is the best response to a girl in such situation? Call her on it sounds desperate to me. Maybe give a ****y/funny response?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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synergy1

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when a chick is into you, its obvious. They look at you with a penetrating stare. If she's looking around and wandering, that means she is bored with you and probably less attracted to you than this other dude. Saying something stupid won't suddenly amplify her attraction for you ( it will make you look more like a chode)

In this situation, move on unless you think you have a legitimate chance. Big picture, set yourself up for success and get more attractive to women and focus on the girls who are good looking and show you interest.
 

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Have you checked out a girl infront of another girl, did it lead to anything? Shes not your girlfriend either, nothing to worry about..
 

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LittleBigOne said:
What does it mean when you talk to a girl who you are attracted to and already know a bit and you notice she is glaring to another guy (who she knows) at the same time. I was annoyed by it and told her i had to to somewhere else and cutted of the conversation. It felt awkward, it gave me the feeling she´s more attracted to that guy. But okay, what is the best response to a girl in such situation? Call her on it sounds desperate to me. Maybe give a ****y/funny response?

She already got one up on you. And it wasn't by her checking out the other guy. It was your emo reaction to it. Next time ingnore the nonsense. A chick will pick up that you are confident enough not to worry or get jealous. If she keeps doing it on different occassions? Never mention anything, slowly go ghost on her a$$ while meeting other women. Let her wonder what happened. If she doesn't? Who cares if you're already lining up other women. Never let em see you sweat.
 

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tell her, that you find the guy cute and they would make a nice couple.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PapiChulo said:
tell her, that you find the guy cute and they would make a nice couple.
Either this or don't let it bother you. :wave:

Calling her out has no good in it that is for you. She's not your girlfriend. :(

Upgrading yourself and spinning more plates is the best thing right now that is for you. That's my ruling. :cheer:

Case closed. :)
 

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Happened to me, last night. Dude was either had a GF he really liked, was totally oblivious, or gay though. I still fooled around with the girl. The lesson learned: play it cool. The dude hung out with us for an hour (she knew him, previously), got a hug from the girl, then left. Then she blew me.
 
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