"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl broke no contact.

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ok. i know this is a easy and smile question. but it gets a little more complicated.

first i added her to facebook then i got her number. so when i went no contact 2 weeks ago. i deleted her off facebook.

she sent me the

" hey :) did you delete me of fb?"

i'm not going to respond to it i don't think. need something more solid.

what do you guys think ( this is going to be a running thread.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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did you actuallu have a relationship with her? bang her?
 
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betheman said:
did you actuallu have a relationship with her? bang her?
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nope. should have mentioned

background: we was texting for a while and i got the attraction up. we sexted though she never would come out. always siad we should do something when i offered, she would never come out. i say her at nye but got there at 3am so the buzz was over. so nothing happened. plus her friend was there. she was being a bit of a ***** so i knew she would ahve **** blocked. it's ok i got a free taxi ride home

edit: yes i know how bad this thread sounds. i panicked and made one.
 
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What is the purpose of this topic?

You have not even kissed this girl, not to mention fvcked her?
- you have seen her once? Do not tell me you have "fellings" for this girl, or something along thoose lines?
 
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European-DJ said:
What is the purpose of this topic?

You have not even kissed this girl, not to mention fvcked her?
- you have seen her once? Do not tell me you have "fellings" for this girl, or something along thoose lines?
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no i met her out a few times with friends.


though you totally right.. though i came here looking for what i should send if i should send anything at all.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Packers2010 said:
no i met her out a few times with friends.


though you totally right.. though i came here looking for what i should send if i should send anything at all.
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Depends what you want. Are you looking for just a lay? A girlfriend? Do you want to burn a bridge for fun? etc
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Depends what you want. Are you looking for just a lay? A girlfriend? Do you want to burn a bridge for fun? etc
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i looked at this as a whole.

i think i was just " one of her guys" just to pump her ego. ses 28 and has a kid. she needs to feel like she still has it.

i saw on her facebook she went out last sat. with 2 guys who are her orbiters.

she made out with one of them and she told me he likes her but she doesn't like him lol


i think i am going to wait a week and see if she text back. if she doesn't then i am going send some random sexual message just for fun and burn it to the ground.

she is a friend of a friend though so i can't take it far.
 
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