There is this girl who I know that is engaged to a nice guy who she has known and was friends with for most of her life. She tried telling me a couple of times that I should be a nice guy [afc] and that I should just be friends with girls because she heard that I told a girl that seriously flaked on me that I only wanted to be her aquaintance when she insisted that I be her friend and buddy buddy to her.
She keeps telling me that I am kind, nice, and sweet for some oddball reason which goes beyond my understanding so I tease her and some other girls using ****y/funny. Well, today I got tired of it so I posted a note on the refridgerator at work saying that:
"unless you intend to pinch my cheek, kiss me and hug me, or tuck me in at night I am not nice, sweet, loving, or caring. Thank you for your co-operation."
Well, she took it off of the refridgerator, and when I comfronted her later she said that she took it off because she didn't want other people to see and feel that it's inappropiate. I asked her if she thought I was ugly or fat or something, and she got a big grin/smile combination on her face and just looked at me for about 30 seconds then told me, "I always say that you are sweet and kind." I realized that she was avoiding telling me whether I was ugly or not and responded with "well, some girls think it's a good thing, other see it diffrently, and I'll just leave it at that."
She just sort of nodded silently and I left.
Do you guys think I did good on this?
By the way, there isn't going to be a sexual harassment lawsuit nor am I going to be fired, so you guys don't worry about that in your responses.
She keeps telling me that I am kind, nice, and sweet for some oddball reason which goes beyond my understanding so I tease her and some other girls using ****y/funny. Well, today I got tired of it so I posted a note on the refridgerator at work saying that:
"unless you intend to pinch my cheek, kiss me and hug me, or tuck me in at night I am not nice, sweet, loving, or caring. Thank you for your co-operation."
Well, she took it off of the refridgerator, and when I comfronted her later she said that she took it off because she didn't want other people to see and feel that it's inappropiate. I asked her if she thought I was ugly or fat or something, and she got a big grin/smile combination on her face and just looked at me for about 30 seconds then told me, "I always say that you are sweet and kind." I realized that she was avoiding telling me whether I was ugly or not and responded with "well, some girls think it's a good thing, other see it diffrently, and I'll just leave it at that."
She just sort of nodded silently and I left.
Do you guys think I did good on this?
By the way, there isn't going to be a sexual harassment lawsuit nor am I going to be fired, so you guys don't worry about that in your responses.