"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl Asks: "So, Do You Come Here Often?" IOI?

mackdaknife

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Interesting day today. I just rolled out in some sweats, with stank breath and several days of beard growth. I didn't smell daisy fresh either. Nonetheless, more AI's and IOI's than I have had combined in several weeks.

At church, some girl I've seen around, an extremely pretty half Asian girl in her late teens, sits by me and stares at me every chance she gets. She asks me: "so...do you come here often?" Isn't that supposed to be MY pickup line?!? The reason I ask if this is an IOI is because her fiancee was sitting next to me while she was asking me a bunch of questions, like the one above.

Also, some girl was staring at me immediately as I enter the record store. I open immediately and ask her some little chit chat questions. I end the convo go about my business, but she makes a point of telling me about two places that she hangs out a lot at, without my asking. This is a Latina with a tiny bangin' little body, very pretty face.

Two possibilities: 1: pheromones/underarm scent attracts the ladies. 2. If you just roll out like you just don't care, girls can sense you are comfortable with yourself. Third possibility: Latin chicks are into me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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j0n024

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Dude I think its number 3!! YOur sooo lucky!!! B4astard!
 

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=)) i think it's you ain't giving **** that's causing this reaction , but sometimes it works sometimes it fails miserably
 
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