"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl Approached Me??

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DJAntonius

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I tried doing a search on this but keep getting an error message. So I'm at the bar last night working on some stuff for work, and this HB walks up to the bar to pay her tab. Next thing I know she walks over to me tells me she's been watching me work and asks me what I'm working on. We talk for a few minutes about my work, where she's from, hobbies etc. and then she states that she really liked meeting me at which point I got her number (she made it pretty apparent that she wanted me to have her number; she was also fairly drunk).

Since she was drunk, I texted her my name/number and said get home safe at which point she replied with how it was awesome to meet me.

Out of curiosity, do the rules change when a girl approaches you/gives you her number? Would you guys do anything differently compared to the usual guy approaches girl and asks for number scenario?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The rules don't change, but if you meet her at the bar again, be ready to leave the same time as her and give her a lift home... play is pretty much guaranteed.
 
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ovoxo

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^Ditto. Potential same night lay if your on top of your game. She was obviously already feeling frisky and tipsy.

tells me she's been watching me work
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Translation: I've been eye ****ing you from across the room. Your focus on your work has gotten my panties moist. Please find a way to get me back to your place or mine and have your way with me.
 
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