Girl apologizes ignoring my text after matching on Tinder?

[Konada]

Pretty bizarre situation here, let me know how you think are the ways I can play this out. Got this chick's number a few weeks ago via OKC, sent her a message on whatsapp but she never replied. Until today, I didn't even know I swiped onto her after she messaged me on tinder:

HB: HI I'M SO SORRY I EVER IGNORED YOU ON WHATSAPP
HB: I just forgot to open it for days
HB: And it got awkward to reply

Thoughts?

 

[El Payaso]

Personally, I wouldn't respond.

She's already struck out once but you can just go straight for the date and ask her out for coffee or drinks or whatever. Don't even bullsh!t around. Just say "It's cool. We should meet up for drinks on _____ day".

If she's really interested, she will say yes. Anything other than a yes = NEXT.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Personally, I wouldn't respond.

She's already struck out once but you can just go straight for the date and ask her out for coffee or drinks or whatever. Don't even bullsh!t around. Just say "It's cool. We should meet up for drinks on _____ day".

If she's really interested, she will say yes. Anything other than a yes = NEXT.

this. It could be true if she is a shy girl, but even assuming that is the case why did she forget to answer in the first place? Probably because she had low interest.

 

[Lozboss]

I'd just Next her for ****ing you about anyway. NO GIRL doesn';t check their whatsapp.

 

[Stugots26]

Ask her if now she's actually saying "Hello from the other siiiiiiiiide"

 

[Armourhead]

I'd bet she was talking to a bunch of guys when you first messaged her, her hypergamy kicked in and she dated the other guy for a bit, then it ended and now she's falling back on what she considers to be an orbiter

 

[Bingo-Player]

No such thing as shy women anymore they are all perfectly aware the power they have between their legs

Anyway I’m not going to ponce around here

Her excuse is pi$$ poor and in reality she’s been dropped by the guy who’s been fvcking her for the last month

She’s looking for some ego food which you have probably already provided her and once her hunger is satisfied then her interest will vanish and the games begin

Which will Bring you back here to ask us for advice ( you see the cycle ) ?

So what you do is, you politely say “thanks” and then you remove her from your life

The “thanks” holds no specific purpose but at the very least it spins them out and makes them question the stupid sh1t they pull

Women get given far too much slack by men

 

[AttackFormation]

Pretty bizarre situation here, let me know how you think are the ways I can play this out. Got this chick's number a few weeks ago via OKC, sent her a message on whatsapp but she never replied. Until today, I didn't even know I swiped onto her after she messaged me on tinder:

HB: HI I'M SO SORRY I EVER IGNORED YOU ON WHATSAPP
HB: I just forgot to open it for days
HB: And it got awkward to reply

Thoughts?

So first she says she ignored you, which is probably a careless slip of the truth on her part. Then she says she "forgot to open it" which unlike the first sentence, is a lie. No one "forgets" to open their app, let alone a woman with a ticket on the c0ck coaster. She may be using you as a fallback d!ck but honestly I think the odds of that are as good as her "forgetting" her app. What's more likely is she had some downtime after Tommy fvcked her until the neighbours complained, and realised she has a new orbiter she hasn't made use of yet to entertain her.

You think if she matched up with Channing Tatum, she would "forget" to check her apps and ignore him? let this bird go. Tell her "lol aha" and erase her contact info.

 

[Floydispink01]

Personally, I wouldn't respond.

She's already struck out once but you can just go straight for the date and ask her out for coffee or drinks or whatever. Don't even bullsh!t around. Just say "It's cool. We should meet up for drinks on _____ day".

If she's really interested, she will say yes. Anything other than a yes = NEXT.

^^This

The attention whoring of the modern woman would drop considerably if every man followed this advice.

 

[Konada]

She replied "I'm not free friday, next week?"

100% sure she's ****ing me around expecting me to feed her attention. For experience sake I'll just see how far I can go with this one though I really don't give a fvck how she responds.

I replied "Maybe, let me know what day works for you and I'll check my schedule out."

 

[dustmuffin]

this. It could be true if she is a shy girl, but even assuming that is the case why did she forget to answer in the first place? Probably because she had low interest.

They have never met. So low li. The only way to I.prove is to meet. One chance then next.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I seen this before, she knew she was ignoring you bro. The reason why she is contacting you is out of sheer boredom and she is trying to see if she still has a leash on you. Women never mess calls, text or messages that's just being realistic. Once she see's that you are showing interest she will dip out again. Drop her and keep it moving.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Exactly last of the alphas, never thank a ***** for disrespect. She knew exactly what she was doing and you gave her a chump response. The best and most powerful response would have been your silence

 

[Amilz]

Personally, I wouldn't respond.

She's already struck out once but you can just go straight for the date and ask her out for coffee or drinks or whatever. Don't even bullsh!t around. Just say "It's cool. We should meet up for drinks on _____ day".

If she's really interested, she will say yes. Anything other than a yes = NEXT.

I agree, he should should just ask her out. No small talk. Really, he should just move on but if he's looking for something quick and she's down then he should go for it.

 

[Amilz]

She was checking to see how thirsty you were, OR she had other prospects/

I'd simply reply " No problem " and nothing more.

Then the ball is her court to figure out what the h3ll you mean by that. Let her initiate from this point forward.

Indifference, my good man. Works wonders.

Indeed.

Anytime a girl.apologizes to you, for anything, you begin with....

"thank you for your apology"

Conveys that you're a man who doesn't appreciate being disrespected.

If you just pick up with her like nothing ever happened, you're destined to be disappointed by he...again.

I hadn't thought of that. I usually just tell them "it's ok" if I'm feeling that way. If I'm in a situation in which a girl apologizes I would use that. I just find that they rarely ever apologize. They will say they messed up or made a mistake but rarely "I'm sorry." Saying thank you for the apology is an acknowledgment by both people she was wrong and you have the power to accept or reject.

 

[nismo-4]

She apologized because she was getting railed by Kevin the football player.

There is no such thing as a shy person. She wouldn't be shy if Brad Pitt tried to get with her, and you wouldn't be shy if Katy Perry tried to get with you.

Now, she's coming back to you hoping you'll be an emotional tampon because her awkwardness comes from the emotional bond she got from Judge nismo destroying her vagina 3 times over, then tossing her overboard. She needs an orbiter, and you fit the bill.

Mauser is right with indifference working wonders, but she has to have a high enough interest for it to work.

Move quickly with women. If you ask her out and she doesn't say yes with actions to back it up, it's a no and she should be dropped like a bad habit.

Case closed.