"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl admitting to have herpes

scotties

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I think I have it, I used to get those bumps on my upper lips and they feel tingly to the touch. Supposedly this is one of the symptoms. My mom and sis seems t to have cold sores too. I did quite abit of research about this and it does seem to be very common, something like 1/2 people will have it at my age so if I don't already have it-i'll get it eventually anyway.

But still though... just hearing the word herpes makes you run (evident by some of the post on here) without really do any research on it. Am willing to bet most of us on here has it. Question is if most of it have it, does it justified getting it yourself over some girl?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AllInADaysWork

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I basically approach this issue like this:

1) herpes 1 + 2 is an extremely prevalent and easily transferable virus. It can not be treated with current medication (removal of it).

2) Herpes normally is harmless with the occasional breakout

Therefore, if you get it, think nothing of it.

For those who advocate meds, its frankly BS. I mean if the meds you are supposed to take only suppress symptons but you feel morally obligated to disclose your condition, your not really doing anything about it except spending more $$$ a month for feeling 'good'. If the meds start to actually detain/rid of the virus, then its in your best interest to get it. But dont go wasting your money if your planning to reveal your condition to your partner.
 
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