"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl accuses me TWICE of being a liar, when I'm not expressing EXACTLY how I feel in the EXACT moment...crazy?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bokanovsky

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Women who lose their sh!t over trivial matters are bad news. It could be a sign of mental health issues, a hormonal imbalance, her being an entitled b!tch or all of the above. In any event, this condition does not appear to be curable. She will eventually blow up the relationship.
 

jaygreenb

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From what I've read and observed what other men went through, here is what I understand of it.

Very often these women develop very intense attachments to you but with it occurring in a timeframe that it would be inappropriate, @harrison9876 even mentioned this in his original post. It's like you had a few dates with her and she is already saying she loves you or wants to be around you all the time, texting you constantly, etc. They also tend to be hypersexual, I'm not really sure why this is but I always had the feeling it was to please the man so that he doesn't leave. Without writing an entire essay, I feel like the trend is behaving in a way where intense emotions fluctuate. First they love you and want to please you in every single manner, then when they feel you have left them or are unavailable, they totally hate you and you are the worst person in the world.......only for them to swing back the other way.

Just read some of the stories on this forum and you'll see a pattern.
Sex is the hook and they try and get you addicted to it. Then they use it as control in the future when running hot and cold.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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