Gina tingle?

[letsplay]

First post so before questions, respect to all Dj's out here.

I've been reading alot on this forums (mm mainly) and i found quite useful topics, tips, eyeopeners, etc. that really helps my no gf/pvssy afc situation... never heard that before, right

Among other things I found that kino stuff and c&f to be most helpfoul to ease the pressure of interacting with single women. Maybe this seems a small step to you but for me this is big. That pressure is a quite a problem for me (read virgin/running taughts). Anyway I find myself in situations with women where I manage to do some of that things with them and it's fun but what I wan't is to raise the level to some c&f shyt that would turn up the heat when talking to them solo. You know that stuff that makes her gine tingle... well I can't tell that I know

Any tips regarding the style of the conversation that would lead to some IL raising, I suppose that you don't go with the c&f to the bone or compliment her overly...

Posted it here, because i'm hoping for some maturer response, a wider picture of what should be my focus. Not that the other forums here would give me bad advice...but you know... I've red some of the treads that partialy talk about this but maybe you have some wisdom to share.


P.S. Sorry about my english. It's not my primary.

 

[pdx1138]

In a very tactful/natural way you need to veer the discussion to sexual subjects.

I did this once on a second date and I really wasn't that interested in her, but she was pursuing me after the first date for weeks. So we met for dinner.

about an hour and 2 drinks later we were somehow discussing our past sexual experiences.

I recall saying something to the effect of: "It's hypocritical how men do what they want, but when women do they are considered slvts."
I could tell she liked hearing that and it possibly powered off her slvt shield.

next thing I know she's following me in her car to my house.

we're watching tv and I notice she's playing with her hair (make sure you read up on female body language if you have not already)

I go in for the kiss, we make out then minutes later we're fvcking.

Later on after, we were talking and she mentioned how she hadn't intended at all to go that far.

 

[letsplay]

ok, so that works. I get the direction, thus this is kind a slipery area for me cuz of very little expirience. Is there a way I could turn the virgin fact in my advantage somehow, but not to leave a desperate note?

 

[letsplay]

Something to wake up the dirty slut in her... thats what i need

 

[Lexington]

PDX's method works, but for me I find kino escalation more powerful than talking about sex. In my experience, girls respond better to physical than verbal stimulation. I usually don't talk about sex at all but just communicate with body language.

Start it with light touch early on and then work your way to touching her tricep area and behind the shoulder. From there you put your arm around her and then work down to the small of her back (right above her ass). If you've gotten this far, she's greenlighting you for a kiss and makeout.

To really get her horny after initiating the makeout, it's all about advancing a little and then pulling back. So you might start making your way down her neck, but then you go back. Do this a few times and she'll pretty much beg you to go down her neck and take it further.

If you start gradually escalating from the get go, she will pretty much beg you to stick it to her after a while. Remember, sex doesn't begin after you take your clothes off, it starts long before that with a woman you are courting (maybe if you've known her a while you can cut straight to the fvcking!)

 

[pdx1138]

yeah def use kino escalation, I forgot to include it because I wasn't KINO'ing this girl. I didn't want to bang her, but she kept showing interest in that direction so I obliged her.

 

[squirrels]

Any tips regarding the style of the conversation that would lead to some IL raising, I suppose that you don't go with the c&f to the bone or compliment her overly...

Conversation has very, VERY little to do with "gina tingle".

Like my girl's been saying when I ask her why she is so in love/lust with me..."The way you look at me, the way you touch me..."

Not once has she mentioned what I SAY.

Poor conversation can be a sexual turn-OFF, but good conversation is rarely a sexual turn-ON. It's more to engage and distract her conscious mental defenses, while the REAL action is going on at a purely "primal" level.

 

[pdx1138]

Squirrels I respectfully disagree.

women love to be talked to a certain way for sexual stimulation, it's very powerful and effective, but certainly shouldn't be the only way to get her going hot.

I used touching & talking at the same time to get a girl to stay the night at my place when earlier we meet she said no way.

quoted from a recent artice sts99 found:

"I hear women say in my office that desire originates much more between the ears than between the legs," says Esther Perel, a New York City psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity.

 

[letsplay]

so it's like keeping the tension with sexusal subject but not only rely on that. It must not be forced. I get that.

thanx for the replys...

 

[scrouds]

Squirrels I respectfully disagree.

women love to be talked to a certain way for sexual stimulation, it's very powerful and effective, but certainly shouldn't be the only way to get her going hot.

I used touching & talking at the same time to get a girl to stay the night at my place when earlier we meet she said no way.

The base is emotional manipulation of your quarry. How you do it is up to you. Multiple approaches can work.

quoted from a recent artice sts99 found:

"I hear women say in my office that desire originates much more between the ears than between the legs," says Esther Perel, a New York City psychotherapist and author of Mating in Captivity.

Flagged out because you should NEVER listen to women for dating adivce. I'm going to keep saying this till my keyboard pecking fingers fall off or people start paying attention to their sources.

 

[letsplay]

Forgot to mention the "twinkie aproach" from .com instance. Used that...conclusion-women like chocolate very much

 

[TheJazz]

Conversation has very, VERY little to do with "gina tingle".

Like my girl's been saying when I ask her why she is so in love/lust with me..."The way you look at me, the way you touch me..."

Not once has she mentioned what I SAY.

Poor conversation can be a sexual turn-OFF, but good conversation is rarely a sexual turn-ON. It's more to engage and distract her conscious mental defenses, while the REAL action is going on at a purely "primal" level.

Squirrels is absolutely right. Inject a male (even an AFC!) with testosterone, duct tape his lips shut, and shove him in a room with the most bodacious blond and watch as the inevitable porno ensues. It's pure sexuality that turns women on. They want a man. I find it more and more disturbing that so many people on here don't know what a man is anymore. Anyway back on topic, for the "gina tingle", as you so nicely put it, engage her in a heavy amount of action. Rock climbing, running, swimming, whatever it is. It gets the blood flowing, and the gina tingling. It's a thing of nature.

 

[letsplay]

squirrels said:

"Poor conversation can be a sexual turn-OFF, but good conversation is rarely a sexual turn-ON. It's more to engage and distract her conscious mental defenses, while the REAL action is going on at a purely "primal" level."

...was PDX'ses line: "It's hypocritical how men do what they want, but when women do they are considered slvts." ...actualy that distraction?

@TheJazz

Rock climbing, running, swimming... It gets the blood flowing... Yea I see what you mean, recreation is always a good thing plus your doing something together what is a thing for itself.

btw If I'm gonna rely on "primal level" and a "thing of nature" then I'm fvcked. Doesn't serve me well...

 

[TheJazz]

Are you not a man? Is nature not your playground? I don't get why it doesn't serve you well.

 

[letsplay]

Well I'm not a prize u know... don't have much to offer on that level. Hell, there's a reason for being a 29yo virgin. I wouldn't go much into that but I'm sure you can imagine. Alot of things I need to improve on myself and I'm far away to become a better man like you guys say it here. I think is actually going quite well, but in small small steps.

 

[TheJazz]

If you don't think of yourself as a prize, how do you expect a woman to? Work on yourself until you think your awesome and the results will blow your mind. That being said, it's all in the mind. Think of yourself as the prize, and you become the prize. I always liked how Pook said "as you think, you shall become!"

 

[scrouds]

Successful men don't have rational self confidence.

They have irrational self confidence. You should believe you are the best thing since sliced bread.

 

[letsplay]

Successful men don't have rational self confidence.

They have irrational self confidence. You should believe you are the best thing since sliced bread.

Yeah, I noticed that. Some guys sell themselves way better then they actually are.