Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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GF sending dumb text messages

StepItUp

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Long story short had minor argument with my gf and now day later sends me dumb message saying and i quote " Girls are meant to be treated like princesses if he doesn't treat you like one now he never will". LMFAO. Its a picture by the way with captions.

Seriously I am not going to even acknowledge it and just call her tomorrow. What a nut.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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seethehoop

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I'd respond with...

"if a girl wants to be treated like a princess she should be prepared to serve him like a king."
 
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+1 See the hoop hahahaha
 

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I just don't answer dumb texts. That's pretty up there on the dumb scale, I was expecting you to say your girl texts you that her lunch was good or something.
 
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