gf made out with some dude during break up

[pyros]

Hi!

See this, I broke up with my gf, now ex, and we were split for six months.
Recently we started to talk again, and she told me that she just made out with a guy some weeks ago, two times. She also said that it meant nothing and that she stopped it already.
Well, after a few more chats, she said: oh, if you see him you'll think he's kind of a looser.

I do not care whether he's or not, but:
should I know who this guy is? it seems he's friend of a friend of hers.
If we met by chance in a party or wherever, should I say something? should I worry? should I say to my ex: aha, so that's the dude, yes he's kind of a looser.

Or how should I behave?
I do not find pleasant to meet or see some dude that made out with my gf, or ex gf.
What do you think?


Thank you!

 

[Maximummax]

How old are you 12!

There are lots of chicks out there in the world, find some one who is better
and stop talking to your ex, its waste of time. Find some hobbies.

She is already wasting your time by playing games and making you jealous by telling that she made out with some guy.

Read DJ bible

 

[tomato]

I think you should laugh about the fact she would make out with a guy like that and say he must have been dancing around happy the next day thinking he was the luckiest man alive. If you meet him I think you should treat him as a buddy and be nice at most give a very subtle playful DLV like "aww look how young you all are so cute!"

I would like to know how you should treat the issue of her seeing him or talking to him regularly eg if she shares lectures with him?

There's a chance my ex slept with one of these friends during the breakup - I slept with others aswell but still - how you handle her seeing him all the time? I take it if she does then you just go out with girls more???

What would you all say about that - you'd say NOTHING i take it???

 

[Tovansky]

Dude, are you trolling or what? WHY DO YOU HAVE TO BE CONCERNED AGAIN? yes, capslock intended.

 

[Jariel]

I think you need to try this on him...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=84541

or

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=78015

 

[pyros]

Well, she told me because I asked her if she made out with anyone.
But should I know who this guy is? or I should not care less?

I understand that even if we all met in a party or something, as long as my gf or ex gf, is not talking with him, just being socially polite, it's ok.
But when she said: 'when you see him you'll think he's kind of a looser'
what am I suposed to say if that happens? something like: well, we weren't together and you got bad luck, obviously. It's ok, I'm here now.'


ever happened to you?
I don't know if its a good idea to get back together after many months, and after making out with someone else...

 

[WorkingDJ]

The question should be: Why do you even care?

 

[horaholic]

Making out with someone else is unimportant. Thats what people do. Who cares? If YOU didnt make out with anyone, it wasn't because you didn't want to. Seriously, you were broke up for SIX MONTHS. Most chicks would have banged ten dudes in that amount of time.


The real question is why did you break up in the first place, and why do you expect it to be better this time around?

 

[SgtSplacker]

In my experience when a woman tells you something like this it means you may see the guy, or know who he is, or she still sees the guy through common friends, or he knows who you are. Just find out exactly who he is and how she met him, just so you know and keep an eye out for situations where they may be together.