"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TopGun2000

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this is how a real man should react

SgtSplacker said:
Exactly SoSuave, once I see a girl is interested in this kind of thing the first thing i'll do is explain that she is changing the relationship by seeing another guy for lunch. This alone is a great way to gauge her IL.

The second think I do is turn this into a winning situation that makes me happy. I'll start taking girls out while still banging her. And every time I do take out a girl i'll use the exact same verbiage she did for her lunch date. Whether I screw them or not is my option, but you can be sure that if an upgrade is found she will be nexted.

The objective here is to always move forward, never back. If something is not making you happy you change things so it is.

I dated a girl for 7 years that tried to do this to me. And I did exactly what I am posting here. She decided not to go on her little date. I never had guy issues with this girl again after she understood how things worked with me. It was her decision, not mine.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just curious, how do you guys lay down the boundaries in a confident non jealous way?
 
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