"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
No doubt. I try to talk to chicks on myspace as well. But it's that feeling. Like if you're ever going away, everyone might get sad and ask for your phone number and stuff. But when they finally have it, they never call u or anything b.c. they "Can call u anytime".
It just cool to know all your high school acquaintances are @ your fingertips.
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This made me laugh, because it's exactly true. If keeping track of your high school classmates is sex, and a 20 year anniversary is orgasm, then myspace is a premature ejactulation

I've already found all my classmates too early to wonder what they're up to, when I might actually care if it'd been 20 years since I heard from some of them. Oh well.

Once again, I second the notion that this is no big deal, and nothing to dump a girl over.

But, to a more solid point - and I just noticed this after reading penkitten's reply - why are you talking on the phone with her while you're in the shower?

Why are you letting her tell you what to do? If you "can't" hang up the phone while you take a shower, then obviously you mean you WONT because you don't want to start a fight. It's not like she super glued it to your head. Grow some balls, and tell her that you're not going to keep the phone on hold while you shower becasue it's stupid. Why are you talking on the phone with her for so long anyway?

I shudder to think what else she forces you to do.

Take your balls back for chrissake!!


BrotherAP :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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