my gf has been fighting with me for a while. seems like I get under her skin all the time for nothing. some days she will be loving and fun wanting to cuddle have sex or just goof around. most days she's just plain mean or mad at me for nothing at all. I just go about my business and chill with friends. I met this other girl few weeks ago. we talk and she is like a breath of fresh air. funny and fun to talk to. i like her and think of her a lot. i cant take a lot more of my gf. i love her but she is just being mean. she has been under stress from school and her mom. but that gives her no reason to treat me bad. i tell her off then she storms off but is nice sometimes after i yell at her. she always wanted a future together but it doesnt seem likely the way she is acting. we've been with each other for over 2 years. is this just a phase? is she bored of me? or just confused with stress. im thinking i want to cut ties. idk if things will get better soon or should i accept its done. has anybody been this way before with a similar situation?
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There is no reason to stay with a woman who treats you like garbage. When you're in a relationship and miserable, being single and happy is the only way to fix your situation. You can't fix a woman, she has to fix herself. If she's doing nothing but getting under your skin, you have the decision to get rid of her.
There is no reason to be miserable because of one person you don't have to be with. If you're tired of her 5hit and think it's time to move on, then do it.
There is no reason to be miserable because of one person you don't have to be with. If you're tired of her 5hit and think it's time to move on, then do it.
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Hmmmmmmm dude! "gf fighting and being mean to me "
Your title suggests your attitude is week and pathetic. Im not hating.
It is like your little sister telling on you to your mum. You need to be a man about these things. You have shown some authority by yelling at her. She responded well to this. I think she is frustrated with you abit. Are you needy sometimes and stuff. You have probly slacked off since you first met and she is trying to nag you into the man you youst to be by raking you up. Tell her you are taking her out, order her meal for her, tell her what you are going to do after, tell her what position to get into. Try these things and see if you get better results. I can explain more if you need. If you have no intentions in marrying her then don't **** around. This other chick could be some fun but think of all the other ladies out there and your future wife you hav to find. Life is short.Think about these. But don't take any **** from her she is also likely testing you to see if she wants to stay or go.
Slick..
Your title suggests your attitude is week and pathetic. Im not hating.
It is like your little sister telling on you to your mum. You need to be a man about these things. You have shown some authority by yelling at her. She responded well to this. I think she is frustrated with you abit. Are you needy sometimes and stuff. You have probly slacked off since you first met and she is trying to nag you into the man you youst to be by raking you up. Tell her you are taking her out, order her meal for her, tell her what you are going to do after, tell her what position to get into. Try these things and see if you get better results. I can explain more if you need. If you have no intentions in marrying her then don't **** around. This other chick could be some fun but think of all the other ladies out there and your future wife you hav to find. Life is short.Think about these. But don't take any **** from her she is also likely testing you to see if she wants to stay or go.
Slick..