“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

GF Cruise Control

MOTU

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
638
Reaction score
72
Location
Houston, TX
It seems to really easy for me to get on cruise control toward GFville.

So the teacher/cheer coach that has been the subject of this thread and this thread have continued to see and fvck each other. Our next date after the one in the "just got me laid" thread was actaully a weekday date (not the week right after we fvcked.. the following week) where I told her on Sunday "I want to go hiking Tuesday, play hooky from work with me and let's go to the state park" and she did and we did and then went to her place and banged. We have gotten together a couple other times since then, banged each time.

She spent the night at my house Saturday night. I had a big party and she came and brought food and helped with making drinks. We had fun. My drunk @ss fvcked her when we went to bed and she slept curled up against me and woke me up with a bj. Nice.

She is fun and doesn't annoy me. She is good in bed. She has an ok face and a hot body. She doesn't over text me and we don't talk on the phone at all. She is very affectionate, which I like. She has good job and her own place, one grown son. She likes me. A lot, I think.

And so it seems I am on cruise control to having a girlfriend. But I am not sure if that is a good thing or not?

I guess I am kind of lazy in that I am getting what I want out of her (sex, an activity partner, etc) so it would be easy and convenient to have her as a GF. I have been actively dating and it's a lot of work.

But I don't feel swept off my feet or anything. And I think what I really want is a mid-30's mexican waitress; I have a thing for the latinas (coach is white). I was learning to Salsa dance but I have stopped because I am busy and did I mention I am getting laid pretty regularly??? But I am quite certain that if I allow it, at some point, this woman is going to want to be exclusive with me. And that will be easy to say yes to.

Anyone else deal with this kind of thing?

(edited to fix links)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dasein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
207
Yes. Sounds pretty good actually, and the not knocking you off your feet thing could be partially due to your experience level in life and partially due to it being so comfortable. The ones who "knock me off my feet" tend to be crazy IME.

Is there pressure towards exclusivity coming from somewhere? Why does this have to be an issue right now? Just steer from relationship talk and keep things light and flirty, sounds like things are going very well. Keep the time spent together toned down, no or few "all weekend-24 hour date" deals and keep options open. Good luck.
 

MOTU

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
638
Reaction score
72
Location
Houston, TX
dasein said:
Is there pressure towards exclusivity coming from somewhere? Why does this have to be an issue right now? Just steer from relationship talk and keep things light and flirty, sounds like things are going very well. Keep the time spent together toned down, no or few "all weekend-24 hour date" deals and keep options open. Good luck.
You are right, this isn't an issue right now at all. I do tend to over-think things. I just see that I seem to be on that path and I am not sure I am any good at keeping it under control. Not out of neediness, out of laziness or something.

Thanks for the input.
 
Top