I actually do benefit from this woman. She cooks, cleans and doesn't mind paying when we go out (with her debit card). I also try to keep things evenly by paying for stuff. She's assured me her debt is her problem that she's dealing with. I also believe in keeping things separate and I don't intend to ever get married. I just brought it to the board to see if there could be something that I'm overlooking. But good info all around.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GF Admitted She Has a lot of Debt
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