Gf acting like me?

[Remulak]

My gf is starting to talk, act, and like everything I like. Things like hockey which she had no interest in before she suddenly has interest in. We were talking the other day and it was like talking to myself lol. Is this normal?

 

[Zerix]

She's a keeper.


Or so I read, about this kind of situation =p

 

[Hawke]

Hmmm, not sure i'd say she's a keeper. These situations can last a long time or just a few weeks/months.

I would say it's a good sign you two have a deep sense of rapport going on, and your the one she looks up to. Just think back to how you are around someone you looked up to or admired back in school. You tend to want to emulate their traits... it's very normal, and i've only really seen happen to people who have a deep rapport connection with one another.

 

[PRMoon]

Immitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Really though, you should be glad that your girl is taking up intrest in the same things you do. That means she really digs you and wants to be involved in/with the samethings as you in order to better relate to you and gives her a reason to spend more time with you. Usually this doesn't happen overnight though, it's a lifelong commitment deal where after a while people will say "you two are around each other so much you're starting to LOOK alike!". If something like this is happening this early in your relationship then it might be a sign that things are moving too quickly or she's some what psychotic and is trying to leech onto your life. As usuall, I'd let half of me appreciate what's going on but the other analytical half should watch out for signs of derailment.

 

[AngelusPUA]

I like a woman to be her own woman; I hate it when she starts to share too many of my interests. I’m just a sucker for strong independent women......... well each to his own

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

I think it is cute when my GF 'swagga jacks' me (copies me.) I think that this is completely natural. We have a very playfully relationship, so we are always teasing each other and shyt and now she's always repeating shyt that I often say.

 

[INXS]

This is one of the things I would have in an "ideal relationship." Nice.

 

[Big Eee Zee]

it means she looks up to you, always a good thing.

I've had this happen, before she met me she thought cars were cool, but after, she thinks cars are amazing, and knows all about them (i still know more, and will keep it that way, but i like that she's somewhat knoweldgeable.)

Today we accidentally wore matching outfits, it was disgustingly cute.

ugh...

 

[MetalFortress]

Major red flag, bro. I suggest you dump her and move on, cuz it's gonna get bad real, real fast.
























Just kidding. Like the other guys said, it is DEFINITELY a good thing. A massive part of female sexuality is hero-worship of sorts, so you got it good!

 

[INXS]

Mind sharing the steps you took to get her to act like you... lol

 

[vorbis]

For some reason that kind of behaviour bugs me. My brother used to act like that, i'd ask him an opinion on something and his opinion would be pretty much what I had just said about it. A small bit of it is good, it shows she's really into you. Too much of it though will make it seem like you're talking to the mirror.

 

[Docs]

Mind sharing the steps you took to get her to act like you... lol

There are no steps to create this.
Only the attraction and interest you both share can cause this.

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