"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting with an older woman

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DJ McBuster

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Met this older woman. She is single. She is 35, and I am 23. We had lunch. We talked mostly about her,work, and life in general, she smiled alot and was very talkative. I asked for her number later. She was suprised, thought I was joking, but she gave it to me after I was forced to say we were just friends right. This threw me, because she waited for it. She waited to give me her number after I said we were just friends. The thing is I don't want to be friends though, I just thought we would start from their so like a typical male I said yes. Towards the end of the day to I asked her If I rushed her and she said it was fine. So I guess I really want to know how to play this. Should I wait and call her a few days from now or should I just try to be her friend for a while and see what happens?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamePendo

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Next time dont ask her ****. You come to us and we help you out.

Did you use kino on the -date-? Im thinking you didnt.

Anyways, dont be her friend. Ask her out, and next time, invite her over to your place to watch a movie.

And get more #s.
 
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Well your right I will ask her out.
I want to do it.
But don't you think I am rushing her.
I mean yesterday we were total strangers and today we are friends.
 
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No man asks a girl for her number just to be friends - let alone a old maids number!!! She knows you want the juice - she is 35, enough said!!!

When a much younger man asks for an older woman's number, then, the woman knows you only want her hole - for what other reason would you associate yourself with her????
 
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Last Man Standing said:
No man asks a girl for her number just to be friends - let alone a old maids number!!! She knows you want the juice - she is 35, enough said!!!
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This is correct. She's trying to see if you'll back down by the LJBF. Tell her you'll bring her a geritol smoothie with her next shipment of Depends.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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